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???? I had the pleasure of discussing in the real life podcast with one of the most beloved teachers in Romania, Dumitru Borțun, about how we can build love in a couple relationship, through communication. On the stage of the Athenaeum in Iasi, in the Real Life Podcast, Professor Borțun gave a memorable performance. Talking about love with humor and skill, he managed to create a real carousel of emotions. The more than 300 people present in the hall laughed, cried and went home richer in spirit. ???? The discussion started with a series of personal stories and went on to explore the reasons why most breakups are caused by poor communication. Professor Borțun analyzed love from the perspective of ego and simple pleasure, then offering a comparison between the Christian and the atheist vision of love. ???? He discussed the possibility of training constancy as a couple and explained the importance of being aware of the three elements in a relationship: me, you and "the relationship between us", offering practical advice for building solid bonds between partners. ???? Among the key moments of the discussion were the rules for active listening, exemplified (killingly) by the methods that have saved over 4000 couples thanks to John Gray. Watch the episode till the end and don't forget to like this video and subscribe to the channel. By contributing in this way, you will help this type of content reach as many people as possible who need it. Here's the full episode breakdown: 00:00 Beginning stories 05:24 Studies say most breakups are due to poor communication. Why? 11:24 Love, between ego and simple pleasure 13:42 2 different perspectives of love: a Christian vs. an atheist 17:18 Can steadfastness be trained in relationships? 21:29 In a relationship there are always 3: me, you and the relationship between us. How do you build the relationship? 23:40 Rules for Active Listening 36:43 How John Gray Saved Over 4000 Couples Through Communication 49:40 The Theory All Women Should Know 53:47 The Pocket Ideas Quiz 58:15 Audience Q&A Join subscribe to this channel to get access to the benefits: / @vladgafencu ❣️ SUBSCRIBE ???? / @vladgafencu ❣️ Support the activity of this channel by contributing as a member: / @vladgafencu _____ ???? Thank you to friends and partners at 10plus.ro (online course platform for kids and adults) for supporting this podcast! ???? Ideaticu' has Facebook and invites you to like it ???? / ideaticupodcast ???? You can meet Ideaticu's "friend" here: ???? / vladgafencu ???? Follow Ideaticu' on Instagram ???? / ideaticu ???? Ideaticu' on Spotify ???? https://spoti .fi/3GMj8v9 ???? Ideaticu' on Anchor Fm ???? https://anchor.fm/vlad-gafencu4 ???? Join this channel to get access to benefits: / @vladgafencu