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"It's shameful to be afraid, only weaklings are afraid." "Look your fear in the eye, get out of your comfort zone!" Each of us has heard similar words and even tried to sincerely believe them. But what if in reality everything is not so simple - and when faced with something frightening, uncertain or simply new, we continue to be afraid? Where does fear come from? What to do if a person has experienced a traumatic experience - or is experiencing it right now? What is good about fear? Why do we want to get rid of it - and is it true that this is impossible? Psychologist Evgenia Andreeva will answer these questions together with the community director of the Yasno service Ekaterina Artemenko. ???? We have just launched - and your feedback and support are more important to us than ever. Tell us in the comments if you liked the video, and subscribe to the channel so as not to miss new releases. Watch the episode of "Now it's clear", where Katya Artemenko and stand-up comedian Denis Chuzhoy discuss relationship problems: • About exes, relationship conflicts and ... Yasno service. Find a psychologist online and sign up for a consultation. 20% discount on the first session with the promo code YOUTUBE: https://yasno.live ????What this episode is about: 00:00 Introduction 01:00 Where does fear come from? 03:26 Traumatic experience: what feeds our fears? 08:49 "Is it shameful to be afraid? Do I need to get out of my comfort zone?" Myths about fear 14:43 Why do we need fear? Unexpected answers from psychologists 19:22 Why do we scare ourselves all the time? About reading the news 24:54 How to use fear? 26:40 Why are we afraid of being abandoned? Fear and passive aggression 31:00 What to do if you are afraid of everything? We scare our fear 32:57 Fear and trauma. How to deal with numbness? 35:53 What does a psychotherapist do with fear and trauma? 41:39 Questions from the Telegram channel "Ok, yasno" 41:59 "How to stop being afraid and start doing something new?" 46:23 "How to overcome the panic fear of death?" 48:40 "Why, when I feel fear, do I start to get angry and behave aggressively towards others?" 50:59 "How to cope with the fear of public speaking?" 53:12 "What to do if the fear that a person will stop loving you leads to panic attacks?" 56:24 "How to deal with the fear of making a mistake? I am very dependent on the opinions of other people, I have problems with self-esteem, and the fear of making a mistake prevents me from living" 58:33 "How to overcome the fear of loneliness so as not to seek support in humiliating relationships?" ______________ ???? Ask your question in the telegram channel "Ok, clear": https://t.me/yasno_live #clear #fear #psychotherapy