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The idea of talking about suicide was born from the comments of our channel viewers on another difficult topic dedicated to death. Talking with psychologist Larisa Pyzhyanova about how to survive death, it seemed to us that there was no more emotionally difficult topic. But approaching the topic of suicide turned out to be even more difficult. The heroine of this interview is clinical psychologist Natalia Belyavskaya. She has 15 years of experience as a leading psychologist in the Emergency Response Department of the Russian Emergencies Ministry. She is the one who rushes to help those who are one step away from the irreparable. And she knows everything about suicide. Natalia did not immediately agree to this interview. She reveals the details and subtleties of what is related to the topic of suicide with great tact, fearing that her words might harm those who have faced this misfortune in reality. Any carelessness in these matters can provoke suicide or hurt the feelings of those who have lost loved ones. And therefore the idea that runs like a refrain throughout our conversation is that no one should blame themselves. 00:00 Why do people commit suicide? 01:23 In order to commit suicide, an ambivalent personality must form in a person 03:55 Such a personality begins to form in childhood 05:10 Suicide statistics around the world and in Russia 06:05 How a negotiator can always find common ground with a person trying to commit suicide 06:36 How suicide became a specialization for Natalia 07:32 How the work of the Emergencies Ministry suicide duty team in Moscow is organized 09:33 How a potential suicide gives himself away 10:51 How loved ones can sense that something is going wrong 12:56 What to do if you suspect a loved one has suicidal tendencies? 14:16 Why do seemingly completely happy people commit suicide? 16:22 Can a person track suicidal thoughts in themselves? 16:58 How the victim's personality is formed 20:22 At the point of pain, a person is capable of committing suicide due to any insignificant reason 21:36 Why do people write suicide notes 23:15 How Covid has affected the number of suicides 25:10 Who is more prone to suicide - men or women? 25:47 Demonstrative suicide - is it manipulation? 27:20 Which age groups are more prone to suicide? 29:32 What can be the prevention of suicide? 31:16 What to do after a person has attempted suicide? 33:05 If a person has decided to commit suicide, is it possible to dissuade him? 33:53 Legends of the Golden Gate Bridge 35:51 Were there people you couldn’t save? 37:14 The strangest reasons for suicide 38:32 Suicide prevention at the state level – what it could be 40:03 What to do if you accidentally find yourself next to a person trying to commit suicide 41:19 A difficult case from Natalia’s practice, in which architects are partly to blame 42:58 Myths about suicide 44:00 How antidepressants provoke suicide 46:39 Is it possible to drive a person to suicide Subscribe to us on social networks: VK: https://vk.com/kollektiv_doc TG: https://t.me/kollektiv_doc