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Today I invite you to a meeting with couples therapist - Piotr Mosak. He can talk perfectly and interestingly about what patients come to him with most often, what is the recipe for a successful and loving relationship. We touched on many topics, including finances in a relationship, the division of roles, and male emotionality and the space needed for its verbalization. Please watch and listen to our conversation. BALANCE on Instagram: / kubajankowski Table of contents: 00:00:00 Best parts 00:01:42 What do people come to a couples therapist with most often? 00:05:08 Not getting along in a relationship 00:07:11 How to be in love with one person your whole life? (acceptance, closeness, and curiosity) 00:13:08 Why do we overdo feelings in a relationship? 00:19:00 Are men "emotionally cold"? 00:25:48 Sacrificing yourself for the good of a relationship 00:32:57 "Family is the most sacred thing and must always be together" 00:35:24 How to convince your partner to go to couples therapy? 00:45:48 How to change relationships while remaining at a safe distance from each other? 00:50:50 Transactionality in a relationship 00:52:56 Does male-female friendship exist? 00:58:07 How to pair up well? 01:00:39 Recreating patterns in relationships 01:04:55 What should be the foundation of every relationship? 01:07:44 How to manage money in a relationship? 01:14:38 "Male" and "Female" roles in a relationship and economic violence