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Larisa Didkovska, psychotherapist, associate professor at the I. Frank National University of Lviv, president of the Ukrainian Association of Gestalt Therapy: "The number of claims and the number of divorces, from what I see from my clients, is increasing." 🔸 stage of exhaustion: increased suspicion and paranoia 🔸 complimentary partnership 🔸 marriage of the past: "I can't do without you" 🔸 modern marriage: "I can do without you" 🔸 codependency and facade things 🔸 "holy woman alcoholic" 🔸 "empty nest syndrome" 🔸 repair or throw away? 🔸 mathematics of changes for the better 🔸 evolution of the culprits: a stool, me and "the infection that put the stool here" 🔸 marker of maturity 🔸 pain is inevitable, suffering is a choice 🤝 The series was created with the support of the New Democracy Fund. 00:00 Intro 01:57 Dynamics of divorces during a full-scale war 06:17 More suspicion and paranoia. What about relationships? 07:39 Complementary partnership and rivalry 13:51 Tyrant-victim relationships: 100 years ago and now 15:36 Women file for divorce more often 16:29 Empty nest - empty nest syndrome 17:45 Normative and non-normative crises 20:31 New relationships - old problems 25:58 Children of an alcoholic 29:10 National tendency to split 35:24 Mature personality 43:15 Adequate accusations 51:11 The principle of healthy relationships 53:04 4 models of the family 56:42 Pain is inevitable, suffering is a choice 01:04:20 How to distinguish pain and suffering 01:08:26 The mathematics of happiness 01:11:29 Afterword by super-vision star Maria Fabricheva 🔥 For those who believe that we can more (and it's true): 👉 / zhovtikedy 👉 https://www.paypal.com/donate/?hosted... 👉 https://buymeacoffee.com/zhovtikedy 🔗 Link to the bank https://send.monobank.ua/jar/75SS4tNRwy 💳 Bank card number 5375 4112 0982 5939 Our Facebook 🔗 https://fb.com/zhovtikedy Our Flickr 🔗 https://www.flickr.com/photos/zhovtikedy Listen to #ZhovtiKedy as a podcast👇 🎧 Spotify: https://cutt.ly/4weZZpSH 🎧 Google Podcasts: https://cutt.ly/Z52oQlY 🎧 Apple Podcasts: https://cutt.ly/K5KUTsQ 🎧 SoundCloud: / zhovtikedy #ZhovtiKedy #Borisko #Didkovska