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because my editor gave up on finding me a wife, I finally went directly to the expert, @zolathematchmaker who has matched hundreds of people for 11 years, who knows I might be one of them later we'll see. I thought that rather than just me learning, I made this a podcast so you can also learn, what is important in a relationship, the myths that people have misunderstood, and most importantly how we can become a better partner in life, enjoy the show. Chapters : 00:00 The Hook 01:24 The Secret to a Peaceful Relationship 02:31 Find Yourself Before Finding Love 05:55 Myths About Loving Yourself 10:16 Criteria for an Ideal Partner 12:57 Why Feeling Secure is Important 15:30 The Power Couple 15:54 What Do You Bring to the Table? 17:56 Compatibility Must Be Sought 18:30 Case Study When Fighting With Your Partner 19:38 Emotional Maturity Is Important 20:22 Ego and Pride Are The Killer 21:30 How Media Shapes Unrealistic Expectations 22:52 Every Gender Has a Feminine and Masculine Side 23:40 Misconceptions About Labels 25:20 Date Like a Scientist 26:59 Why Matchmaking Services Can Help 28:53 Dating Apps Are Not the Solution? 34:00 People Will Change 35:30 How to Date 101 36:08 Dating With Intentions 37:12 The Matchmaker's Journey 38:20 Overcoming Blind Spots in Love 41:38 The Question People Ask 42:56 The Importance of Self-Awareness 47:47 Life is Not Black and White #raymondchin #wife #partner #husband #success Raymond's Socials Instagram: / raymondchins TikTok: / raymondchins