Dear viewers! In this video, I tried to consider the most common behavior patterns that provoke dirt and chaos: accumulation of unnecessary things, inability to “force” yourself to regularly perform the necessary actions to maintain cleanliness and order, as well as a “ragged” approach to organizing everyday life, when heroic actions to organize everyday life are surprisingly combined with complete disregard for elementary rules. It is these behavior patterns that prevent us from organizing and maintaining a comfortable life, and not the secret rules for maintaining cleanliness and order, because they are actually elementary and you, of course, know them. And they exist in us for a reason, they are based on certain, rather deep psychological reasons. If you liked my approach and you would like to “dive” into this topic a little deeper, I invite you to my open online seminar “Psychology of chaos and order”. This seminar will help you start moving towards eliminating these blockages. In this seminar, we will focus on 3 key points: 1. Motivations for hoarding. That is, let's take a closer look at the behavior pattern that pushes us to bring a new thing into the house, and then prevents us from decluttering. 2. Let's touch on the features of the motivational system, in which everything related to everyday life, or most of what is related to everyday life, causes you disgust or despondency. 3. If the needs of our EGO become leading in the matter of maintaining cleanliness and order, then, on the one hand, we really want and need to live “in cleanliness and beauty”, but on the other hand, we cannot consistently and regularly perform the actions that are necessary for this. We will analyze this situation in more detail at the seminar. Come, all the details are on this page, https://pemtra.com/bardak/ When: Tuesday, October 8, 2024 at 13 Astana / 11 Kyiv / 11 Moscow Where: closed channel in Telegram Duration: 3 hours Cost 50 euros or 5,000 rubles. Pay in rubles https://t.me/tribute/app?startapp=sfg9 Pay in euros https://t.me/tribute/app?startapp=sfga Payment is collected in Telegram by a special bot, after payment you get into a closed channel, where a welcome message and all the necessary instructions will be waiting for you. If you are unable to participate, a recording of the seminar will be available to you. For all questions write to [email protected] decluttering, decluttering cosmetics, decluttering wardrobe, decluttering minimalism, decluttering a room, decluttering a house, decluttering a kitchen, decluttering clothes, minimalism, minimalism as a lifestyle, minimalism in an apartment, minimalism in clothes, cleanliness and order in the house, my 10 rules for cleanliness and order in the house, ADHD and cleaning, ADHD order, cleaning the house motivation, cleaning the house, cleaning the house life hacks, junk in the house, order in the house, order in life, order in the house psychology, disorder in the apartment, motivation to clean the kitchen, motivation to clean the apartment, motivation to clean the bedroom, how disorder in the house affects life, disorder at home disorder in the head, what does a mess in the house mean, minimalism Japan, ADHD and OCD, obsessive compulsive disorder, marie kondo the magic of tidying up, flylady Timestamps: 00:00 Sketch “Rule #1 - regular decluttering” 01:49 Introduction 03:33 Dialogue “Why I can’t keep my house clean and tidy” 04:06 Hoarders. Why the rule of regular decluttering doesn't work 06:44 The main motive for hoarding 08:10 Sketch "At the waste recycling station" 09:47 The illusion of creating a new image of yourself with the help of things 10:12 Sketch "The tenth sweatpants, the 33rd cup for coffee" 11:55 Each new thing for a hoarder is an illusion of a new life 13:23 Case "She wanted to be a "ladybug"" 14:43 Parting with a thing means crushing all hopes 17:16 "Freezing" a thing in the status of hope 18:49 Emotional portrait of a hoarder 21:56 Where you really need to start decluttering from a psychological point of view 24:03 Seminar "Psychology of chaos and order" 25:20 Sketch "Every thing should have its own place (house)" 26:25 Why it is difficult to return things to their place right away after use 34:47 Target and intermediate actions 36:39 The main reasons why it is difficult to perform “intermediate” actions, aka actions to maintain cleanliness and order 36:49 Energy deficiency - as a reason for saving energy on intermediate actions 37:46 Failure of the reward system in the household sphere - weak “pressure” of motivation 39:01 Conflicting needs - a complex “flow” of motivation to maintain cleanliness and order 40:15 EGO needs as a bad motivator for organizing everyday life 42:19 Seminar “Psychology of chaos and order” 43:02 When there seems to be energy, but there is still a mess, ADHD and order in the house 47:48 Minimalists 49:22 Obsessed with cleanliness (obsessive-comp