Switch to Beeline and enjoy reliable mobile Internet: https://clck.ru/34CBRY Odnoklassniki is tens of thousands of interests and millions of people who share them. https://ok.me/cm9A1 Relationships with parents remain painful and acute for many adults. It would seem that it would be worthwhile to react more calmly to some actions or words of the mother, but it does not work. I would like to clearly but gently outline the boundaries of my personal space, but it ends in a scandal. This issue is about how "cold", anxious or overprotective mothers shape our attitudes, how to cope with the consequences of such a relationship model, and most importantly - how to understand and forgive our imperfect parents. Telegram channel of Elena Novoselova https://t.me/novoselova_time Elena Novoselova Club https://t.me/novoselova_club_bot Social networks of Yulia Menshova Telegram: https://t.me/JuliaMenshovaJulia Instagram*: / juliavmenshova Community in VK https://vk.com/samamenshova Yandex. Zen https://dzen.ru/samamenshova 00:00:00 In this issue 00:00:58 Are adult children offended by their parents - a tribute to fashion or a pressing problem? 00:02:20 What is the historical peculiarity of the conflict of generations? 00:03:30 Why until recently were mother-daughter relationships not taken into therapy? 00:04:52 Why is the topic of relationships with mother so painful even for adults? 00:06:40 Advertising integration 00:08:03 The "good girl" syndrome 00:09:34 How do "cold" mothers raise "good girls"? 00:10:53 What do children raised by "cold" mothers not allow themselves to do? 00:12:52 Anxious mothers and the consequences of raising a child on a "short leash" 00:15:05 How controlling mothers become the main member of a young family 00:15:55 Advertising integration 00:17:28 The family budget controlled by the mother-in-law 00:18:24 Why are we afraid of losing our parents' favor? 00:20:40 How to gently get out of situations in which mothers "exceed their authority"? 00:21:41 What is one of the main problems with the perception of parents by grown-up children? 00:23:07 Children who don't love their mothers and mothers who don't love their children 00:24:35 Why do some parents think that children shouldn't be praised? 00:25:54 What should a person do who realizes that he doesn't love his mother? 00:27:27 Is it possible to go back and fix everything? 00:29:20 How to respond to claims like: "I gave you my whole life"? 00:29:55 Does it make sense to go into direct conflict? 00:31:22 Is it possible to "re-educate" parents? 00:32:26 What to do with emotions that need an outlet? 00:33:37 Technique for getting rid of negative emotions 00:35:35 Overprotective mothers 00:37:24 A mother who comes into a young family's bedroom at any time 00:38:50 What to do in a situation when loving mothers violate boundaries? 00:40:09 Do such mothers always sincerely want their child to be happy? 00:40:55 How to "feed" a mother who lacks love? 00:42:17 How to accept your parents? 00:44:09 Forms of protection from negative emotions caused by communication with mother 00:46:12 How to forgive your parents without lengthy psychoanalysis? 00:48:10 Julia's story about resentment towards her parents and accepting them as they are 00:51:20 Is it possible to take responsibility for your emotions? 00:52:19 "Why me?" or "what for me?" 00:54:06 Do unresolved issues with parents always extend to relationships with children? *Instagram is owned by the American company Meta, which was recognized as extremist and is banned in the Russian Federation. **Meta is the parent company of Facebook, WhatsApp and Instagram. Recognized as extremist and banned in the Russian Federation #psychology #menshova #samamenshova