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Jealousy is something that can take over us completely, cause pain and anger, and even destroy relationships. Why are we jealous? What to do with jealousy towards exes? And towards children from a previous marriage? How does jealousy work in polyamorous relationships – and is the ideal of a monogamous partnership achievable? Psychotherapist Ekaterina Artemenko and founder of the Moscow Gestalt Institute Daniil Khlomov will talk about this in the new episode of the show “Now it’s clear”. ???? We’ve just launched – and your feedback and support are more important to us than ever. Tell us in the comments if you liked the video, and subscribe to the channel so you don’t miss new episodes. Watch the episode of “Now it’s clear” about fear: • What to do if you’re scared? Yasno service. Find a psychologist online and sign up for a consultation. 20% discount on the first session with the promo code YOUTUBE: https://yasno.live ????What this episode is about: 00:00 Introduction 1:25 "It's hard to be the first lady." Why is Hera the goddess of jealousy? 4:52 Where does jealousy come from? 6:28 "The absence of a penis as an inferiority complex." Jealousy according to Freud 9:19 "I need more attention." Jealousy and family 16:52 "Do whatever you want, but make sure that I don't know and no one else knows." Jealousy and relationships 21:24 "Rescue is not organized." Prohibitions and responsibility 26:01 "The hunting instinct turned on - I went to look for the enemy." Jealousy, projections, deficit and monogamy 32:51 What can be opposed to jealousy? 36:03 Questions from the Telegram channel "Ok, Yasno" 36:13 "I'm jealous of my boyfriend's friends. How can I learn to respond adequately to my friends and not get angry that he spends little time with me?" 38:59 "Is a healthy relationship between a monogamous and a polyamorous partner possible?" 43:20 "Is it normal to be jealous of your husband's mother?" 46:53 "My partner had a lot of girlfriends before me, I get terribly jealous when he communicates with one of his exes. How can I get rid of this?" 52:38 "I'm incredibly jealous of my husband's child from his first marriage. I want him to be around only me." ______________ ???? Ask your question in the Telegram channel "Ok, Yasno": https://t.me/yasno_live #yasno #jealousy #psychotherapy