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WHAT CHILDREN'S TRAUMAS RUIN THE LIVES OF ADULT CHILDREN? Ilona Dovgan and Oksana Sashenko, family psychologist, psychotherapist, talked about this today. Watch the new episode of OnlineTherapy and learn about the following: ✔️ How to recognize when love is being manipulated? How dangerous is hyper-protection? ✔️ “I said”, “I know better”, “I’m an adult, I decide” - what’s wrong with these phrases? What are the consequences of such a style of upbringing in a child’s adult life? ✔️ How is self-esteem formed? The influence of parents on this process. ✔️ How does the “transfer” of insults and demands to the mother to a partner work? ✔️ How can adult children establish relationships with their parents and move to an “adult-adult” form of communication? Subscribe to our channel @onlineterapiya ???? English school for children and teenagers Green Country ???? ????Online and offline learning in Kyiv, Kharkiv, Lviv, Pustomyty ✅ 3 free classes with the promo code “ONLINETERAPIYA”: https://bit.ly/4e06FTS ✅ Free English events: https://bit.ly/3Ag8e2i ✅ English with native speakers, Ukrainian teachers, preparation for the NMT in English Also listen to programs on the air of radio “KrainaFM”. Subscribe to our social networks: Instagram www.instagram.com/onlineterapiya_official TikTok www.tiktok.com/@onlineterapiya Or listen to the podcast https://bit.ly/3RoUjMy __________________________________________________________________ 01:35 - The influence of a mother on a child's life. 07:30 - Hypercare. 10:15 - “I said” - directive mothers. 15:03 - Freedom after separation. 17:38 - Love as manipulation. 22:33 - Choosing what to pass on to your children. 24:03 - The “stone face” experiment. 29:22 - How is self-esteem formed? 32:32 - Distorted love. 36:50 - The fact that a child walks “in a hat and boots” does not make them happy! 40:00 - “Transferring” insults and demands to their mother onto their partner. 44:00 - Orgasmic ability depends on the mother. 46:28 - My needs are not important. 50:41 - Who do hyperprotective children grow up to be? 54:00 - An authoritative mother. 56:30 - Anger and resentment in children towards their mother. 59:20 - An example of investing in a bank. 1:02:30 - How to continue a relationship with toxic parents? 1:06:40 - How to transition to “adult-adult” status?