What is Secure Attachment? What lies at the root of behavioral problems? Pedagog Adem Güneş with Pedagogical School Episode 1 ???? VIDEO CONTENT ???? Secure attachment, origin of psychological problems, behavioral disorders, serenity, emotional needs, meeting needs on time and sufficiently, breastfeeding, mother's voice, anxiety, thinning tone of voice, spiritual origin of behavior, spiritual need of the child 01:34 ► Why secure attachment? 06:04 ► Meeting the emotional needs of the child 07:52 ► Factors that form the attachment between the child and the mother: "The tone of the mother's voice" 21:10 ► Meeting the spiritual needs of the child ???? NOTES FROM THE VIDEO ???????? ???? The root of all behavioral disorders seen in children is that the child's psychological needs are not met. ???? The root of the communication disorder between spouses is also that emotional needs are not met. ???? Attachment problems also lie at the root of anger management disorder. ???? Children whose emotional needs are met on time and sufficiently leave tension aside and reach calm and spiritual peace. ???? The pregnancy process is an important process for attachment. ???? Pedagogically, the child's sucking the mother is not an effort to fill the stomach. ???? It is easier for the child to bond with the mother than with other people. ???? The child should not bond with both the mother and the father at the same time. ???? The first of the conditions that create attachment; the mother's voice must be in a tone that can meet the child's emotional needs. ???? The mother's voice should be in a tone that will touch the child's emotions softly. ???? The most important of the basic conditions for the child to bond is the mother's voice. ???? The mother's voice should be natural, otherwise the child cannot bond. ???? As the person starts to worry, the tone of the voice becomes thinner. ???? The voice tones of people who do emotionally difficult tasks become thinner (police, teacher, announcer). ???? A thinner voice when a person is anxious prevents spiritual contact. ???? One of the most basic conditions for attachment is a soft tone of voice. ???? Tension causes the voice to become thinner, which in turn causes the inability to attach. ???? The voice must be adorned with mercy so that the child can abandon himself to the mother. ???? What we call attachment is a person abandoning himself spiritually. ???? A child who has been disciplined with punishment is not well-behaved, a child who has been taught morality with punishment is not moral. ???? A child is not a cat that can be disciplined with punishment ???? Punishment should not be included in disciplining a child ???? In order for a child to be able to meet his emotional needs, he needs to feel trust and security from the person he will be attached to ????‍????‍????‍???? SUBSCRIBE to be a conscious parent ???? 〰️〰️〰️〰️〰️〰️〰️〰️〰️〰️〰️〰️〰️〰️〰️〰️〰️ ???? VIDEO TEXT ⌨️???? You can click on the link to read the full text. ???? http://www.ademgunes.com ----------------------------------------------------------------------------- ???? ADEM GÜNEŞ MEDIA ACCOUNTS ???? ???? Web ???? http://www.ademgunes.com ???? Radio Pedagoji ???? http://pedagoji.fm ???? Twitter ???? https://goo.gl/BhYmGA ???? Facebook ???? https://goo.gl/kTNvMl ???? Instagram ???? https://goo.gl/CG3V4O ???? Telegram ???? https://goo.gl/Qi881o ???? Forum ???? https://www.pedagojiokulu.com/ ???? Youtube ???? http://goo.gl/uO3XFp ???? Spotify ????https://goo.gl/x8UQXC ???? Spreaker ????https://goo.gl/kQ3PRs ???? Soundcloud ????https://goo.gl/Vq6uAE ???? Apple ????https://goo.gl/VU4Udn ???? OTHER VIDEOS THAT MAY INTEREST YOU ???? ???? Pedagogy School 15 - Attachment Disorders and Solutions ► • Pedagogy School 15 - Attachment Disorder... ???? Pedagogy School 2 - Attachment & Sense of Belonging and Questions and Answers ► • Pedagogy School 2 - Attachment and Belonging... ???? Pedagogy School 6 - Emotional Deprivation and the Struggle for Power ► • Pedagogy School 6 - Emotional Deprivation...