10 Things The Universe Will Make You Feel When A Big Life Change Is Coming Sometimes when our lives are about to change, we can feel it before we can see it. These are just some of the experiences you might have before a massive change takes place. 1. You begin to gradually release denial When we are really stuck in life, we tend to deny everything. This is how we protect ourselves from the panic of admitting everything is wrong because we don't yet have the confidence to believe we can fix it. When we are approaching a major life change, what we are really encountering is the tipping point where we are finally ready to reconcile what has been "wrong" for quite a long time. This means you will come out of the denial phase and move into anger, remorse, regret, remorse, and even sadness. These are feelings you've been harboring for a very long time and you're probably ready to let go now, knowing that the story is changing, that your life is adjusting in the way it really needed to all along. We don't come out of denial one day, we come out of it slowly and in stages, and eventually we come to the realization that we weren't happy before. 2. You'll look back on the choices that got you here. Big life changes are often a time for reflection. When we realize we're moving from one chapter to the next, we often pause to take stock of what happened in our previous story and how that contributed to where we are now. More than anything, we begin to become more self-aware. We begin to realize why we ended up where we are now, and why. We begin to reflect on the choices that got us where we are today, and how we might need to choose differently if we want a different outcome in the future. Whether you're proud of what you did or you regret it, either way, this process of reflection brings with it a lot of important wisdom for the future. 3. You'll become clear about what you really want. The process of coming out of denial is also the process of aligning. When you acknowledge what you don't want, you can't help but recognize its opposite: what you really want. You may discover that recognizing what you want is not an inspiring process. In fact, the opposite is true. You might come to these conclusions from a place of anger, regret, and total despair. You might realize that you've denied yourself the ability to even recognize what you want, let alone pursue it wholeheartedly. Regardless of how you arrive at this conclusion, it is important that you can no longer neglect what you really want, and that is a good thing, even if it makes you uncomfortable. 4. You will shed everything you no longer want to wear. You might find yourself physically letting go of what is around you. You might clean out your closet and the clothes that no longer fit you, go through your things and do a deep clean. Maybe you move, stop talking to some friends and start contacting others, and so on and so forth. This is a subconscious way of aligning the outer world with what is happening in the inner world. Deep down you know you are moving on, and you cannot do that if all the weight of the past is holding you back. 5. You will address other long-standing issues. When you heal one part of your life, it tends to radiate out and affect all the others. Maybe you're coming out of denial about the city you live in, or the type of work you do, or the long-term viability of a relationship. You might also want to address other things that have been bothering you for a long time. As we improve one part of our lives, the others that remain unhealed become more noticeable by comparison. Just remember to tackle one thing at a time and not completely overwhelm yourself. You can acknowledge what needs to change while doing it at a safe pace. 6. Coming full circle. As all of these revelations and changes happen, you may find yourself "coming full circle." Maybe you always had an inkling of what you're doing now. Maybe you're accepting parts of yourself that have always existed, even though you've been denying them. #universe #podcast #spirituality