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Marlies Dekkers in conversation with addiction counselor Claudia Krumme about her book 'From sorrow to love.' "Every change starts with awareness." Maintaining a healthy relationship is an underestimated art. Emotional self-defense strategies that we carry with us from childhood also affect our ability to bond and be intimate later in life. For example, it is possible that old traumas cloud our view of our partners and ourselves, resulting in the development of unhealthy relationship patterns. To teach us about these dark sides of love life, addiction counselor Claudia Krumme joined Marlies Dekkers of De Nieuwe Wereld: "The trick is to take responsibility for your own wounds separately from each other." A lesson in love, with Claudia Krumme. Claudia's book 'From suffering to love' can be found here: https://relatieverslaving.counselling... -- 0:00 intro 1:01 Don't you have to be almost perfect to have a good relationship? 6:54 What is a relationship addiction? 11:02 What emotions are behind a co-dependency relationship? 20:02 Has the corona crisis also put many relationships on edge? 23:52 Which ten thoughts keep denials going? 27:46 Are we leaving each other too easily or not at all? 31:29 How do you help people become aware of their 'backpacks'? 38:10 What is the attraction of a toxic relationship, and how do you get out of it? 42:32 How can you work on yourself? Do you have any tips? -- De Nieuwe Wereld TV is a platform that brings together people from different disciplines to think about major changes that are coming due to a combination of rapid technological developments and globalization. It is an initiative of philosopher Ad Verbrugge in collaboration with anchors Jelle van Baardewijk, Marlies Dekkers and Thomas Bollen. De Nieuwe Wereld TV is made in collaboration with Centrum Ethos at the VU and the Philosophical School of the Netherlands. Do you want to support us? You can do so here: https://www.whydonate.nl/donate/denie...