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Subscribe to the RTVI Telegram channel: https://t.me/rtvimain In the RTVI studio, Marianna Minsker and family psychologist Ekaterina Murashova talked about why it is important to instill the skill of pleasing in children. What is it from a psychological point of view? How to teach a child to please if an adult does not have this skill? What is wrong with praise? Why should parents act on their own merits and do what is best for them, not for the child? And does a child have the right to vote? Subscribe to @RTVItainment and like RTVI News - all the main events in a 24/7 format: / myrtvi 00:00 "We need to talk." Model child 01:13 Why should children please? 02:49 Who grows up from such children who were taught to please everyone? 04:00 Why do parents raise children? 08:23 On Japanese parenting: "before age five - a king, after five - a slave" 14:20 "Normal people grow up everywhere" 16:30 What is pleasing? 18:22 How to teach to please? 19:50 What should an adult do who has not learned to please himself? 29:50 What is wrong with likes and praise? 32:20 "If a person was not taught [to please], he can encounter this in adolescence" 34:55 Why should parents always proceed from themselves? 36:00 What is best for a child? 42:00 Children and gadgets 44:34 Does a child have the right to vote? 46:19 Children and animals 50:19 Why is depression the main problem for teenagers? 54:04 Psychologist's recommendations