The narcissist's main weakness is not having anyone to take out his pain on. When he sees himself alone and unable to continue these behaviors, he will have the opportunity to look at himself and then find the cause and solution to his pain. ...................................................................................................... Schedule online or in-person psychotherapy: WhatsApp 11 99787-4512 Contact via WhatsApp by clicking directly here: https://rb.gy/zdrmq http://www.marisapsicologa.com.br/hor... In-person service: Rua Bela Cintra, 968 (near Av Paulista - Consolação Metro and Paulista Metro) In-person psychologist in São Paulo, region of Av Paulista, Consolação, Cerqueira Cesar. Become a member of the channel club: / psychologists in são paulo Free E-books http://www.marisapsicologa.com.br/mat... E-books already published: OCD Obsessive Compulsive Disorder. Personality Disorders. Depression. Psychological Treatments. Anxiety. Panic. ADHD Attention Deficit. Hypochondria. Schizophrenia. Anorexia. Obesity. Agoraphobia. Treatment for Alcoholism. Self-Esteem. Childhood Anxiety. Shyness. Bournot. Premature Ejaculation. Overcoming the Pain of Separation. How to Maintain Sanity in Quarantine. Insomnia. Abandonment Neurosis. Borderline. Etc. Join the Telegram group: https://t.me/PsicologosemSP This video aims to present situations in which a psychologist can act in the psychotherapy process, without having a treatment function. Psychotherapy is your space to receive guidance, reflect, get to know yourself, change behaviors, thoughts and feelings. This video does not replace therapy. Weaknesses of a narcissist A narcissist behaves like a cruel person with some people who come into his life, not all of them, because this person has to symbolize something that hurts him for him to choose him as a victim. This is a person who has specific sensitivities arising from suffering that occurred mainly in childhood, was unable to deal with this pain in adulthood and, in order to survive his pain, engages in compensatory behavior involving other people who would not be at fault for the initial pain. The most common type of pain: - Having been repeatedly rejected by his peers, that is, children of the same age who frequented the same environments did not include him or blatantly excluded him. An important point to note is that this rejection may have been real or imagined. - Having been disregarded by his parents. Her needs for autonomy, freedom of choice, or common childhood desires were not respected. Weaknesses are represented by people who somehow have the same characteristics as her past tormentors, such as power, beauty, money, etc. - A person who is in a position of power may be her weak point, and at this moment she begins to behave in a way that belittles this person, in the same way that she was belittled by her parents. - People who have some behavioral difficulty, for example, having a good relationship with their parents. This may also be her weak point, because when representing her initial difficulties, she will point out violently to make this person as sensitive as possible, thus repeating with this person the pain that she herself felt. - People considered very beautiful may be another weak point, because if beauty was something that was used against her, this is a characteristic that she will seek out. - A person with money will be her weak point if in her history she felt rejected for not having money. In this case, you will feel proud of being around people with money, you will declare to the four winds that you have a relationship with this person, but in a second moment you will call this person frivolous, accuse him of having obtained the money dishonestly, or do anything else to make him feel bad precisely because he has money. Do you realize that the weaknesses mentioned could not be something you could use to return the pain caused to him? The best thing to do when you find yourself involved with a narcissist is to step away from the scene and hope that he realizes that he needs help. Do not try to be the person to help, unless you have never been a victim of this compensatory behavior. In this sense, we can say that the main weakness is not having anyone to take out his pain on. When he finds himself alone and unable to continue this behavior, he will have the opportunity to look at himself and then find the cause and the solution to his pain.