It would seem, what misconceptions and omissions about sex can we have in the era of the infinitely free Internet with its incredible possibilities? Has this topic become less taboo in our society over the past time? No, everything can be looked up, found and learned everywhere. But is it easy for us to discuss it? Psychologist and consultant on sexual relations Natalia Fomicheva is sure that it still is not. But the questions here are inexhaustible: Why are there no decent words in the Russian language for ... you know what? Who has more - a man or a woman? When do people leave big sex? Should we talk about this with children if everything can be looked up on Google? How dangerous is pornography? How many married couples today prefer to live without sex at all? Where did the myth of vaginal orgasm come from? And what to do if sex has left a couple? This is what our heated conversation with Natalia is about. 00:00:00 In this episode 00:00:50 How are sex, psychosomatics and eating behavior connected? 00:01:51 Sex – not a basic need? 00:03:25 Girlfriends who advise finding a man “for health” 00:04:25 What about the reproductive instinct? 00:06:06 How many couples live without sex at all? 00:07:31 Has sex disappeared – is the relationship over? 00:09:08 When is divorce a mistake? 00:10:17 Why are there few decent words in the Russian language ABOUT THIS? 00:12:26 What word makes us “crumble to dust”? 00:12:46 Why was female sexuality taboo for a long time? 00:13:55 Darwin’s theories about the female orgasm 00:14:13 Is the clitoris an “underdeveloped” penis? 00:15:07 Vaginal orgasm and the rule of thumb 00:15:42 Harmful myth about female orgasm 00:16:33 Why can't all women achieve it? 00:16:56 Are women no longer ashamed to want? 00:17:43 An example of how ignorant people are about these issues 00:18:21 How does society encourage men to seek sex? 00:20:06 Is "all men want"? 00:20:59 Is it important for a man to please a woman? 00:21:52 Sex, love and evolution 00:23:03 What problems do men come to a sexologist with? 00:24:16 Tactile contact between parents - why is it important? 00:26:10 Sexual abuse - what is it? 00:27:07 What if the children saw their parents having sex? 00:28:22 Are men polygamous, women monogamous? 00:29:35 "I was with her, but I only love you" 00:30:28 Why do men cheat? 00:31:30 A couple who opened their marriage to an open relationship 00:31:58 Is cheating self-affirmation? 00:32:58 In marriage - powerlessness, on the side - great. Reasons 00:34:47 Norms of the duration of sexual intercourse in different cultures 00:37:17 The main sexual characteristic in the entire history of mankind 00:39:47 What about big breasts? 00:40:34 Is thinness attractive? 00:40:56 The connection between eating disorders and problems in sex 00:42:09 The effect of diets on libido 00:43:04 Female fidelity - nature or society? 00:43:56 Why do people make sounds during sex? 00:45:33 Tribes where one child has many fathers 00:46:07 When did virginity begin to be valued? 00:47:03 How does an egg make a choice? 00:48:06 Halachic infertility 00:48:42 Should we talk to children about sex today? 00:49:33 Fantasy films for adults 00:50:14 How to talk to children about this topic? 00:53:31 Do men always prefer younger women? 00:54:25 Our stereotypes about age 00:55:32 What about menopause? 00:56:56 Condemnation of female sexuality 00:58:05 Competition and envy 00:59:06 A story about an 80-year-old couple 01:00:11 Is sex about contact with yourself? 01:01:14 Can all problems in a couple be resolved? Yulia Menshova's social networks Telegram: https://t.me/JuliaMenshovaJulia Instagram*: / juliavmenshova VK community: https://vk.com/samamenshova Yandex. Zen: https://dzen.ru/samamenshova *Instagram is owned by the American company Meta, which was recognized as extremist and is banned in the Russian Federation. **Meta is the parent company of Facebook, WhatsApp and Instagram. It was recognized as extremist and is banned in the Russian Federation #psychology #menshova #samamenshova