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???? Take part in the free program "Love for yourself" from Assol - https://clck.ru/34aT7A Where does jealousy come from? How do childhood fears of loss "awaken" jealousy? Is there life after betrayal? Jealousy means love? Love and addiction: how to recognize true feelings? Flirting with others: a cure or death for a relationship? In this episode of Assol's talk show "What (NOT) women talk about" we will talk about how to prevent jealousy from ruining relationships. Star guest Maria Pogrebnyak will talk about the reasons for her jealousy, the heroine Yana will share stories of toxic relationships, and psychologist Victoria Dmitrieva will give advice on how to accept yourself and work through painful scenarios of the past. Watch and share your stories and advice in the comments. What Women (NOT) Talk About: 00:00 ― Topic of the episode: Jealousy 00:50 ― Revelations of Maria Pogrebnyak: control, jealousy, hysterics 04:10 ― The reason for jealousy is personal insecurity and lack of fulfillment 05:31 ― How to pull yourself out of the swamp of jealousy: advice from Maria Pogrebnyak 06:59 ― If a woman shows that she is a queen, she will be treated like one 07:35 ― What is self-acceptance: a comment from psychologist Victoria Dmitrieva 09:04 ― What is the danger of being a strong woman for too long 09:30 ― There are things you can’t do anything about 09:43 ― Confidence and appearance: what are women’s mistakes? Commentary by psychologist Victoria Dmitrieva 11:50 ― Yana: “I am a pathological jealous person” 12:54 ― The story of Yana’s toxic relationships: “Others are much better than you” 14:33 ― Many people use the word “love” to justify any kind of nonsense in relationships 15:40 ― How childhood fears of loss “awaken” jealousy. Examples from a psychologist 16:48 ― What triggered Maria's jealousy in her family life in childhood 18:27 ― Becoming a goddess does not mean protecting yourself from abuse 19:53 ― What phrases give away an abuser 20:25 ― Yana after a breakup: "I woke up from staring at the wall for 8 hours" 21:32 ― Friendship as a reason for jealousy: Yana's story and a psychologist's comment 24:06 ― When jealousy begins 25:51 ― Jealousy is given to us by nature 26:59 ― Jealousy and betrayal in Yana's family 27:55 ― How the scenarios we experience in childhood come true 30:15 ― Finding signs of betrayal: how to switch to something else 31:26 ― How to work through stories from the past so they don't affect the future. A psychologist's opinion 34:01 ― The easiest thing for a relationship is to sit down and talk 35:13 ― Comparison with others is an incentive and healthy competition 35:53 ― Love and dependence: how to tell one from the other 37:56 ― Jealousy as an indicator of love: a psychologist's opinion 38:27 ― A cognitive error is to think that if they cheat, then with the best 38:57 ― Nobody is monogamous. Reason #1 why they cheat 39:25 ― Bringing jealousy into a relationship in the form of flirting with others is "from the evil one" 40:35 ― A jealous person = a cheater. Is that true? 41:35 ― Jealousy is like a game of cat and mouse 42:45 ― Curfew and control calls in Maria's family. "Marriage is not a prison" 44:52 ― Can mistrust add fuel to the fire 45:40 ― Life after betrayal: how to build relationships. Psychologist's advice 47:40 ― Maria's advice: "Don't look for betrayal, don't dig, but enjoy" 48:27 ― Yana's conclusions: you need to come to an agreement with yourself 49:01 ― Assol's advice to men: "Respect your choice and make a woman happy" 49:27 ― Conclusions of the program Assol in social networks: Instagram — / assol13 Telegram — https://t.me/radioassol Heroines in social networks: Victoria Dmitrieva — / vikadmitrieva Maria Pogrebnyak — / mariapoga_ Yana Lengle — / yana.lengle * The Meta company was recognized as an extremist organization and its activities were banned in Russia #assol