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The relationship of an adult, therefore - yours, mine and the people around you, is affected by the type of attachment we acquired in childhood. We can feel it both in the relationships of the work team and in the interaction with family members and our loved ones. In situations of danger and stress, when we communicate with others, our attachment style, which we may not even be aware of, will affect how we treat the other person and how the other person treats us. I invited Diana Zandi - doctor of science in clinical psychology, psychologist, cognitive behavioral therapist - to the conversation. During the conversation, I asked Diana for explanations in order to understand the actions of both the person himself and those around him, which are sometimes difficult to understand, sometimes burdensome, sometimes confusing. The topic of attraction is valuable to know both for the leaders of various collectives and for any adult who values good relationships with others. More information on the conversation page: https://ugunsskola.lv/cilvekjauda117 STOP POINTS OF THE CONVERSATION: 0:00 Introduction 3:07 Is secure attachment related to the feeling of happiness 4:32 What is meant by the concept - attachment in psychology 7:04 How does attachment affect partnerships 17 :08 Why does the head of the company sometimes feel like he's running a kindergarten 19:39 How the employee's type of attraction manifests itself in different work situations 26:22 What are the types of attraction and how do they affect our behavior in everyday situations 38:06 What behavior in the work team can be detected , which employee has avoidant attachment and how to help him 47:30 How avoidant attachment manifests itself in family relationships, where it is disruptive and what to do 56:08 Is it right to put responsibility for your sense of happiness and success in the hands of another 1:02:07 How to work instead of recognizing a person with anxious attachment and not confusing it with a biologically sensitive person 1:16:10 Diana Zande's unique approach to working with her clients 1:26:11 Is jealousy related to attachment 1:35:47 Why we should not blame our parents for our upbringing