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This time, a burning question comes up from the viewer-listener magazine, which always arouses passion and makes the commentaries seethe - If a young girl falls in love with a famous or rich old man, is it right to sacrifice the best years of her life? This is also a question that has always been thrown into the air by the audience at Anu's conversation evenings "Good girls don't do that" and "Bad girls". Based on Anu's experience, Ristomatti, who is 22 years older, was a complete lottery win for her. "I wasn't very young either - 26 years old, but of course it's sad that couples with a big age difference don't age at the same pace," Anu admits. "Although men age more gracefully than women, no one would want to become a 70-year-old carer if you are a woman in your 40s in full force." For men, it is as if it is acceptable for a second or third youth to hit at 40. The man feels that he is full of bull, but the woman is perhaps no longer as lively as she was years ago. The scariest, of course, is when the woman has simply given up and doesn't even bother to look in the mirror anymore. "Obviously, the man feels that he deserves better. A young woman gives energy and it's nice to look at yourself as well as to brag in front of others," smiles Anu.