"How do I deal with badmouthing and slander?" There are people everywhere who badmouth and slander. If you take it seriously, it will break your heart. However, you will end up thinking about it a lot. So, how can you calm down even if someone says something to you? We have talked about ways to deal with it. If you collect a lot of these methods, you will hardly be upset. Please try it. ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ [Kokoreta ⇒ Free registration will deliver words of comfort at least twice a month] We are giving away limited articles on steps to living as a friendly lone wolf. More details available here: https://coco-letter.medy.jp/p/6e19aa3... ▼Table of contents▼ 00:00 Today's theme00:36 ① Not listening to the details02:48 ② Worried about me04:44 ③ People you simply can't understand06:53 ④ Signs that it's okay if that person isn't there08:56 ⑤ Evidence that you hate yourself11:19 ⑥ The feeling that things aren't going the way you want them to13:23 ⑦ It's working! It's working! 15:19 Summary: What you especially need to remember━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ YouTube Membership━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ ----- Exclusive videos that answer the concerns of families and couples, all available to watch + receive words of insight every day Click here to join YouTube membership▶ / @cocoyowa ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ Ryota's books━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ ▼New book Amazon "I decided to try living a little more loosely while remaining serious" (Seishun Publishing) https://amzn.asia/d/07bMpqpY ▼Amazon "I decided to stop being pushed around" https://amzn.to/3tFimKy ▶Click here for a list of his books https://brweb.jp/ryota_book/ ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ Related, educational videos ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ ●[No need to pay attention] 7 characteristics of people who don't hide their hostility and only talk bad about others / What type of person relies on negative emotions? • [No need to pay attention] 7 characteristics of people who don't hide their hostility and only talk bad about others / What type of person relies on negative emotions... ●[Why don't they leave? ] The reason why people who talk bad about others are more attached to you / Explaining the thinking of the type of person who can't keep themselves together • [Why don't they leave? 】The reason why people who talk bad about others are more obsessed with you / If you can't protect yourself... ●【The fate of people who talk bad about others】The reason why you end up living with more risks than you can imagine • 【The fate of people who talk bad about others】The reason why you end up living with more risks than you can imagine ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ Related blog articles you should read━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ ●A blog that makes life easier for HSPs and sensitive people https://cocoyowa.com/ ●Summary of each diagnostic test for HSP "Three types: Introverted HSP, HSS type, and HSE" https://cocoyowa.com/test/ ●Ryota's lifestyle and column blog https://brweb.jp/ ●【Archival version】What to try when you can't keep a job and feel self-loathing What methods can you use to work without pushing yourself into a corner? https://brweb.jp/life/mental/ ●The strongest solo technique. When you have trouble with relationships, live as a "friendly lone wolf". What is the secret to not making enemies, as taught by a counselor? https://brweb.jp/life/lone-wolf/ ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ Ryota's social media accounts━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ ● Blog [Cocoyowa] https://cocoyowa.com/ ● instagram / ryo_shigoto ● stand.fm (Radio - Answering letters) https://stand.fm/channels/5f5c6ddcf04... ● Voicy (Radio - Lifestyle, Relaxed Living) https://voicy.jp/channel/1959 ● Threads https://www.threads.net/@ryo_shigoto ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ Brief profile━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ Ryota Born in 1984. Qualified as a mental health counselor and behavioral psychologist, he has interpersonal skills acquired through more than 15 years of parallel work in manufacturing and lecturing, and he has studied healing through music, psychology and ethics at university, and now he is mainly involved in communication and writing about human relationship problems. ●Click here for detailed profile https://brweb.jp/profile/ ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ About this channel ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ ※HSP is a temperament, and is a psychological term that describes people who are highly sensitive to the environment. (For better or worse, they are easily influenced by their environment.) Just because you are HSP does not mean that you have a hard time living or that you are XX. In addition, this channel is only about talking about your problems from an advisor's perspective, with the aim of solving your problems. Please be aware of this. Please also take a look at the channel description. #Human Relationships #Interpersonal Relationships #Psychology