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Here are some thoughts on awareness, on why your reactions are essential for the narcissist. He knows your wealth, he is aware that you are a being worthy of respect and love, but he wants you to do your best to satisfy his desires, to get lost in his gaze, in his words, to allow him to monopolize your time, to make him feel like he was the center of your world. He feeds on your reactions to his provocations, lies, absences, silences, punishments, when you show him that you cannot live without him, when you show your desperate need. As long as your reactions are these you will make yourself attackable, manipulable and he will try to impose himself with greater vigor. Healing begins when you decide to cut short and live in their absence. You deserve peace.