???? TV series "Knock on my door in Moscow" ▫️Fragments from episodes 37, 38, 39, 40 According to the plot, Sergey finally confessed his feelings to the girl and wants to hear the same from her... But! No such luck! Alexandra is in no hurry to do the same and says that everything has its time. The girl gives out her feelings in very measured doses and controls his ardor. She does not rush things and does not follow the lead of the "groom" not because she does not want to, but because she understands that she should not get ahead of herself. Alexandra wants to first make sure of the sincerity of her partner's intentions and that the man has no feelings for his ex-girlfriend Alina, and then the girl will be able to clearly direct her feelings. Sasha tries not to include physical factors and look at the man with wide open eyes. After all, as soon as we connect tactile things, we begin to fall in love. ????Comment: It is normal not to tell a man right away in response: "I love you too." All other words are manipulation. Give yourself time. No more than a week. ‼️She speaks of a sober mind, control of feelings and the understanding that haste is not the best friend in love affairs! And time and consistency are faithful comrades. Sasha restrains his impulses to kiss her, to be alone. Sometimes it happens so easily and is not without humor on her part. In particular, it is worth paying attention to the fact that the heroine is as honest as possible with the man☝????. She asks him to wait. ‼️A loving adequate man is always ready to take his time and will understand! All other words, insults and claims are manipulation. Remember, only boys get offended, not men☝???? ‼️It is important to be as honest as possible with yourself, with your desires and feelings. If something does not suit you, voice it! I like that ????Sasha is not afraid to voice that she is not ready for premature physical contact in the form of hugs, kisses. ????They CALMLY, without unnecessary emotions (which we are accustomed to on the screens), solve problems between themselves, misunderstandings and arising moments of jealousy. ????Sasha tries to build relationships systematically. That is, reasonably, consciously, living ecologically each stage of the development of the relationship. And not intuitively, when everything is spinning for you, you got into the pool and fell in love for life. ????She does not make scenes, and he does not swing her on an emotional swing. ????In a relationship, a girl follows reason, and not butterflies in her stomach. Yes, she is in love. But the heroine does not let the flow of feelings overwhelm her. She understands, first poison (control) - then nectar. This is what makes this picture different from others. After all, wherever you look, there are hot and stormy showdowns. Although, if it were so, a girl like Sasha subtly feels the line between healthy and toxic relationships and would hardly stay in ones where a man questions her peace of mind and rocks her on emotional swings. ????Also, all this is not possible without healthy self-esteem and self-love. It is important to look at your partner adequately in a relationship, turning on your head and turning off all the violently flared up hormones. ☝????Why is it so important to build relationships systematically and control your feelings? Gradual development = gradual rapprochement. First of all, such an approach for a girl guarantees the safety of her female psyche, which is inclined to first fall in love, think up, fantasize, endow the chosen one with non-existent qualities, and then clean up. A man is tested by time and actions. An experiment was conducted in which the brain of a person in love and the brain of a person under the influence of drugs were studied. Scientists have discovered that the activity zones of the brain are absolutely identical. That you are a drug addict, that you are in love, you are in the same state. From this we can conclude that relationships need to be built slowly and trying to keep the mind and feelings under control. Otherwise, building relationships in complete blind love is like a drunk building a house. In the following parts, we will consider ▫️Alexandra's mistakes in relationships that we can learn from. ▫️Warnings with a man and in relationships that should not be overlooked using the example of the heroes. ▫️And also how to build boundaries using the example of Sasha with her lover's mother and other characters in the series Stay with me. There will be a lot of interesting things ahead ????