https://nova.rs/video/?ref=yt She suffered as long as she could, and believed that it would get better, that "he" and their relationship would change. She didn't give up on her family, until one, turning point night, which changed everything, and which is talked about in the new Mamazjania by the famous actress Jelena Helc, mother of four children, for whom she fought for years and still fights. Due to the excessive desire for the survival of the family, Jelena pushed the limit of endurance. Even in marriage, she says, in a way, she raised four children alone. She put her career on hold, moved from Serbia and devoted herself entirely to her home and children. However, even that was not enough. Pathological jealousy, mistrust and enormous insecurity, which is a characteristic of all abusers, was the reason for the collapse of the marriage, for the physical and verbal blows she experienced for years. "I didn't lose hope. I fought for marriage and family, I went for IVF and gave birth to three more children after Vuk. When they were small, I thought I would die, that I wouldn't be able to handle so much work, obligations, it was too hard. Nevertheless, I succeeded, I endured, I learned to organize myself, and they grew", says Jelena. When, on one fateful night, the police knocked on their door, the violence was finally put to an end, and she left with her bags and children. She never came back. Those were the first signs of a fight that was just beginning. Torture in the courts, proving domestic violence against her and the children, fighting for custody, and all this in a foreign country, in an unknown language, surrounded by strangers. "After a lot of trouble, I received support from the system, from the German state. I remember when I was told that by leaving him, I gave the children the greatest gift in life. In fact, now I realize that this is the only way they got a chance to grow into healthy and real people and that, although at first they saw me as a victim and a loser, today they understand and support me," says Jelena. He brings up children so that they are prepared for the worst and hope for the best, that they know that in life everything can happen to anyone and that there will be obstacles, falls, mistakes, pain, torment and suffering, but that the most important thing is to get up and move on, no matter what. In Mamazjania, Jelena reveals how she decided to go and save both the children and herself and what was the turning point. She explains how important it is for every woman, mother, to take courage and put an end to violence. In a conversation for our podcast, he emphasizes what is a warning sign in a marriage and when you should turn around and walk away. During the show, she reflected on the reaction of the environment to her departure and to the divorce. She also describes to us how the children reacted and what they said to her. She states how she coped with problems, pain and depression, after leaving the family home with the children. She explains how difficult it is for a woman to stay alone with one, two, or only four children in a foreign country, left to herself and the system. He appeals that it is important for a system of support for single parents to come to life in Serbia, and above all for women, mothers and children who are victims of violence and have no one to turn to. The biggest challenge for her, as a mother, is to one day see her children as independent, self-aware, correct, healthy, satisfied and normal people, who will not suffer the consequences of violence, or anything that the innocent witnessed. People who will be able to distinguish between good and bad, and when they do make a mistake, who will know how to say - sorry. Follow us at: https://www.nova.rs / nova.rs.officialpage / nova.rs_portal / novarsonline Any copying of video and/or audio recordings and uploading to other channels is prohibited! Copying, re-uploading and illegally distributing this copyrighted work is strictly prohibited! #novars #trebasvedasaznas