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If the horse continually shows fighting behavior, resistance or apathy and is unmotivated at every step, then I invite you to be clear about the following: women have a very high degree of intuitive ability to empathize with their counterparts and to have empathetic conversations and find solutions accordingly. This is so strong in women because that is how nature intended it: women take care of everything in the family at home and raise the children caringly, while the man hunts outside and protects the family - and therefore other characteristics must be pronounced, such as dominance and strength. Horses also have a similar distribution of characteristics: while the stallions provide for offspring and protect their territory, the mares are responsible for raising foals and, thanks to their intuition, take care of tracking down the tastiest grasses. Of course, there are also dominant mares who give their stallions a piece of their mind - but only if the stallion behaves threateningly or rudely in their breeding area. Mares do not constantly ask the stallions to move with this dominance. In a herd, the mare is never responsible for the daily training that stallions or geldings do with each other in order to become stronger and faster. That would simply be unnatural. In our modern society, however, everything has developed in such a way, especially in the business world, that women only have a chance if they can take at least as much punishment as men and can negotiate and work at least as hard as them - at least in areas where it is not about pure muscle power. Sometimes women still have their sex appeal as a weapon, but even that is a "violent solution" for a woman and will not make her healthy and happy in the long term. At the Saliho School, I meet dozens of women who had to abandon their original path in order to survive or keep up out there. The methods for dealing with horses are based 80% on male-dominated and promising dominance behavior. However, women today feel more than ever that this artificially applied harshness is withering them inside. But that doesn't have to be the case. If women dare to take the first step to feel better again and surrender to their feminine abilities such as empathy and non-violent, intellectual communication, then they can heal inside again. Then they will discover their strengths and feel a completely different power within themselves than that of dominance. It is an art, for men and women, to communicate with a horse on such a non-violent but authentic and therefore different level without abandoning its nature. For this reason, I was and still am convinced that Klaus Ferdinand Hempfling is a role model; he is the only person I have met so far and whose work I have studied who can deal with horses completely authentically and with male dominance without violently suppressing or subjugating them and without taking away the horses' dignity and pride. In our school, we show people - men and women - how to gain authentic access to their horse, which adapts in a very natural way to the horse's behavior. The success of our practicing students already extends to much more than just their handling of horses. Many of them change their whole lives and enrich them with their original feminine or masculine power. They leave the cycle of familiar obedience methods, spread this message and thus help to develop a new, more peaceful earth.