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Why do people only seem to want you when you stop chasing them? In this video, we dive into Stoic philosophy to uncover the *9 powerful reasons* behind this paradox. Drawing on ancient wisdom, we explore how detachment, self-control, and focusing inward can dramatically change the dynamics of your relationships. Using examples from Marcus Aurelius, Epictetus, and Seneca, we reveal how letting go doesn’t mean giving up, but rather *regaining control*. This video uncovers the psychological and philosophical principles behind why others are drawn to us when we stop wanting them, helping you *let go of unhealthy attachments* and attract what truly matters. This video isn’t just about relationships, it’s about living a *balanced, fulfilling life* where your actions align with your core values rather than external desires. The Stoics understood that chasing after anything—people, wealth, or recognition—creates an addiction. But by letting go, we regain our power. Let this video inspire you to live with purpose, not be controlled by the things you once pursued. Thank you for watching. 00:00 Introduction 02:00 When We Stop Desire, Desire Disappears 05:41 The Nature of Seeking and Withdrawal 09:49 The Illusion of Value and Rarity 13:57 The Nature of Control and Power 16:25 The Tides of Fortune 20:09 The Power of Self-Sufficiency 23:36 The Power of Time and the Purposeful Life 27:49 The Inevitability of Change ►Subscribe to My Channel.???? / @stoacifilozof ????You can check out my other videos to discover your mind, virtue and happiness, and to learn more about Stoicism from Stoic philosophers (Zeno, Epictetus, Seneca, Marcus Aurelius): ????10 Ways to Be Irresistible to Anyone You Want - VERY POWERFUL PSYCHOLOGY PRINCIPLES • Be Irresistible to Anyone You Want Speaking... ????15 Things You Must SILENTLY Eliminate From Your Life (MUST WATCH) I Stoicism • Things You Must SILENTLY Eliminate From Your Life... ????11 SIGNS THAT YOU NEED TO END ALL CONTACT, EVEN IF IT’S WITH FAMILY OR FRIENDS! • Even if it’s with family or friends, ... ????10 POWERFUL Stoic Techniques to Stop Overthinking (MUST WATCH) Stoicism • 10 POWERFUL Stoic Techniques to Stop Overthinking... ????10 POWERFUL Stoic Techniques to Increase Your Intelligence (MUST WATCH) Stoicism • 10 POWERFUL Stoic Tricks to Increase Your Intelligence... ????7 Signs Your Kindness Is Ruining Your Life - Stoicism - KINDNESS OR SACRIFICATION? • How Your Kindness Is Ruining Your Life... ????Change Your Life in 1 Week - (START FROM SCRATCH) Stoicism • Change Your Life in 1 Week - (SI...