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A CONVERSATION ABOUT MALE AND FEMALE PSYCHOLOGY ???? Friends, we invite you to pour yourself a cup of tea and join our evening conversation! ???? It turned out to be very lifelike — a lot becomes clear in relation to both our own personal lives and the situations that clients come to us with. For your convenience, here is a brief plan of our discussion…⤵️ 00:00 — When creating a relationship, people do not intend to break up, but, at the same time, very often break up — how does this happen? The internal mechanics of relationships: mentalization, the projection mechanism, male and female expectations, tests and provocations, tug-of-war and clarification of personal boundaries, subconscious fears. 11:20 — What is the task of a psychologist at different stages of relationship development? Psychotherapeutic diagnostics of the client's relationships: creating a "3D model" of the internal dynamics of the client's relationships, diagnostics of the phase of love, type of conflict and emotional waves, detection of explanatory models, motives and "defenses". 18:29 - Psychologist's attitude - to save the client's relationship? Working with crises in relationships. Should a psychologist save the client's relationship? Why do manipulation tools not bring happiness and how to help the client take his relationship to a new level? 23:54 - What types of psychotherapeutic help can a psychologist use Three vectors of psychotherapeutic work with a client: interpretation, behavior organization and work with emotions - the essence and task of each, success criteria, detection of triggers sewn into the relationships of partners. 28:35 - Why do modern people not have the same serious attitude towards relationships? Loss of trust and loss of faith: causes of loneliness, the need for emotional closeness and the consequences of its absence, the mechanism of the emergence of an emotional connection. 32:23 - How deep do you need to "dig"? The role of family patterns: the "burden" of people entering into relationships, the influence of behavior patterns in the parental family. ✔️ Thus, today we have lifted the curtain on male and female psychology! We hope that such a general excursion has allowed you to better understand what a psychologist should pay attention to in the framework of his psychotherapeutic practice. The range of issues related to personal life is truly enormous. And the options for developing relationships are countless. But if we understand the key aspects of male and female psychology, know how to work not just with people, but with women and men, we will always find the right key to the client's problem! ???? After watching the video, we will be very grateful to you for your feedback in the comments! This video is from the telegram channel https://t.me/nod_apim Other lectures and videos by Andrey Vladimirovich are available on this and the official channels. Link to the official channel: / @andreykurpatov For cooperation: [email protected] #InstagramKurpatov #VideoKurpatov #Thinking #Self-development #Brain #Kurpatov