✏️ What are your chances of winning back your ex? Take the test: http://jrme.net/quiz-ytb ???? Call a counselor from my team: http://jrme.net/rdv-dsc-ytb ✅ FREE TRAINING: 20 minutes of training with me: http://jrme.net/inscription-formation ▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬ ▶ IN THIS VIDEO ▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬ Does he/she care? This is not the case By mirror we try to imagine what the other feels What is a Radio Silence - Quite clear - Nothing - At all - Neither direct nor indirect communication - It helps either to get back together or to move on Phase 1: relief - For you it's a surprise - Even if you didn't see it coming - How to feel the difference? He was already distant - Especially for an anxious person - Very disconcerting - For them it is not a coincidence - It is surely something planned for some time - "Feeling emotions is bad" - Their system suppresses emotions - Need for space, freedom, there they are served - There is no pain yet - Or it is very light - The relief compensates for the pain - Duration: a few weeks (2, 3, ... 6 weeks) - The biggest mistake: "acting anxious" (fear, crying, pleading: will make people run away) Phase 2: deactivation strategy - Need to reduce feelings (unconscious) - Too many feelings? FEAR - Use of strategies - Getting involved in relationships with unavailable people (married or living at a distance) - Transforming the other's minor details as a flaw - Not sharing their emotions (not vulnerable, independent) - Flirting with other people (sabotaging the bond, not letting this emotional closeness grow) - Avoiding conversations that involve feelings (superficial) - Refusing a commitment - Putting physical distance (stopping seeing the person or not responding to their messages) or psychological distance (being colder and more distant in their communication) But also distractions (sometimes healthy): - Going out with friends (forgetting feelings) and sometimes excesses - Writing in a journal - Video games - Reading - Art - Work - Duration: a few weeks Phase 3: moving forward - Difficult to hear? - Depending on the resolution of their internal conflicts - 3 options - Closing themselves in (increasing phase 2) - Repeating the same thing with another person who also has the anxious profile - Nostalgia: having something missing for you, having found calm - Keep in mind that they have emotions Subscribe / Quiz / Comments Conclusion Ref: • Dismissive Avoidant No Contact What... https://brianamacwilliam.com/dismissi... https://maxjancar.com/going-no-contac... https://nospensees.fr/strategies-de-d... "There are people who pull you up, and those who pull you down, there is no middle ground" "We won the game when we left" "Never again" ▬▬▬▬▬▬▬ ???? WHO IS ANTOINE PEYTAVIN? ▬▬▬▬▬▬▬ Entrepreneur • Speaker • International coach • Author of 2 best sellers Often quoted in the press, he has an impressive and international reputation. He has been one of the most experienced French coaches for 15 years. Considered a reference in the field, he has created more than 200 training courses and coached more than 10,000 people who have benefited from his expertise and effective strategies. ▬▬▬▬▬▬▬ FOLLOW ME ▬▬▬▬▬▬▬ ???? Facebook / antoinepeytavin ???? Instagram / antoine_peytavin ???? TikTok / antoinepeytavin