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The story of the heroine of the show "Open Reception" Pani was like a fairy tale. The first relationship, courtship, gifts and promises of marriage - the very love for life. So it seemed to everyone, until the dream gave way to reality, and the fairy-tale prince turned out to be a swindler and a deceiver. In the new episode of Ksenia Borodina's show, the heroine became a victim of a fraudster. The swindler gained the trust of the heroine and her entire family, and then robbed them of 30 million rubles. Why does the heroine's mother protect the swindler? What does female competition have to do with it? How to recognize a swindler and, most importantly, how to trust people after what happened? Clinical psychologist @bulatova_aliya and host Ksenia Borodina help the heroine understand the psychology of a swindler and the nature of trust. 0:00 - Teaser of the new episode of the show "Open Reception" 1:07 - What is the new "Open Reception" about? 1:39 - How to recognize a swindler: advice from a clinical psychologist. Signs of a swindler 6:15 – The heroine of the episode is a victim of a marriage swindler 7:59 – The expert of the episode is clinical psychologist Aliya Bulatova 9:38 – Living in two families. How does divorce traumatize children? 17:06 – The beginning of a relationship with a swindler 20:14 – Sexual trauma: how to accept it? 22:44 – First sexual experience: is this the akim’s first sex? 24:58 – Manipulations of a swindler. How do swindlers play on pity? 29:21 – Promise of marriage: the swindler gained mom’s trust 32:00 – The first theft. The swindler gained access to the safe 36:28 – The first manifestations of a swindler and the swindler’s first thefts 40:26 – The swindler stole 30 million: watches, dollars, and gold bars 42:38 – Exposing the swindler 44:45 – Mom defends the swindler. Unconscious Female Competition in Psychology 47:00 – How Do Parents Divide Children? 48:28 – The Unconscious Process of Competition in Mother’s Behavior 51:47 – Catching a Fraudster 54:29 – Body Therapy Techniques: How Anger and Resentment Feel 57:27 – Punishing a Swindler 1:00:00 – “I Lived in a Picture That a Person Created Just for Me.” Abusive Relationships: How to Recognize an Abuser 1:02:37 – Post-Relationship Trauma: Why Do We Justify Traitors? 1:08:19 – Resentment towards mother: how separation from parents occurs 1:11:44 – Personal experience of the host of the show Ksenia Borodina Youtube channel of Aliya Bulatova / @bulatova_aliya Aliya’s TG channel: https://t.me/psy_bulatova Aliya Bulatova’s Instagram: / bulatova_aliya #borodina #kseniaborodina #openreception