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"I often clash with my family... what is the cause?" Sometimes it's because we are family that we are more likely to clash. This is because family members are the people we are closest to. The distinction between self and others becomes unclear, and we end up expressing our opinions. We are often influenced by them. There is also a saying that once you reach a certain age, it is more stable to distance yourself. What kind of things are family members that you cannot tolerate? We talked about the key points. ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ [Kokoreta ⇒ Register for free to receive comforting words at least twice a month] We are giving away a limited article on steps to living as an affable lone wolf. For more details, please see: https://coco-letter.theletter.jp/post... ▼Table of contents▼ 00:00 Today's theme 00:37 ① Comparing family members 02:43 ② Interference in lifestyle 04:45 ③ Not being able to satisfy neediness 07:11 ④ Forcing your values on others 10:23 ⑤ Conversations that are full of negativity 13:04 ⑥ Lack of consideration for lifestyle 15:33 ⑦ What to be obsessed with 18:10 Summary: What you especially need to remember ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ YouTube Membership ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ - Exclusive videos that explain the worries of families, parents and children, and couples, all available to watch + Click here to join YouTube membership to receive words of insight every day ▶ / @cocoyowa ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ Ryota's books ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ ▼New book Amazon: "I've decided to try living a slightly more relaxed life while still remaining serious" (Seishun Publishing) https://amzn.asia/d/07bMpqpY ▼Amazon: "I've decided to stop being swayed" https://amzn.to/3tFimKy ▶Click here for a list of his books: https://brweb.jp/ryota_book/ ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ Related, instructive videos ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ ●[I can't do everything!] How to think about and deal with feeling guilty towards my family/What are the worries of parent-child relationships that don't get along? • [I can't do everything!] How to think about and deal with feeling guilty towards my family/What are the worries of parent-child relationships that don't get along... ●"There's no need to worry!" What are the words you should never take seriously in family relationships? You've probably heard this at least once • "There's no need to worry!" What are the words you should never take seriously in family relationships? You've probably heard it once... ●What to do with family relationships when you become an adult? Tips on maintaining an appropriate distance • What to do with family relationships when you become an adult? Tips on maintaining an appropriate distance ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ Related blog articles you should read ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ ●A blog that makes life easier for HSPs and sensitive people https://cocoyowa.com/ ●A summary of various diagnostic tests for HSPs "The three types: introverted HSP, HSS type, and HSE" https://cocoyowa.com/test/ ●Ryota's lifestyle and column blog https://brweb.jp/ ●[Archival version] Things to try when you can't keep a job and feel self-loathing: What methods can you use to work without pushing yourself into a corner? https://brweb.jp/life/mental/ ●The ultimate technique for working alone. When you're having trouble with your relationships, try living as an "affable lone wolf." What is the secret to not making enemies, as taught by a counselor? https://brweb.jp/life/lone-wolf/ ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ Ryota's social media accounts━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ ● Blog [Cocoyowa] https://cocoyowa.com/ ● instagram / ryo_shigoto ● stand.fm (Radio - Answering letters) https://stand.fm/channels/5f5c6ddcf04... ● Voicy (Radio - Lifestyle, Relaxed Living) https://voicy.jp/channel/1959 ● Threads https://www.threads.net/@ryo_shigoto ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ Brief profile━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ Ryota Born in 1984. He has qualifications as a mental health counselor and behavioral psychologist, interpersonal skills acquired through more than 15 years of parallel work in manufacturing and lecturing, and experience studying healing through music, psychology and ethics at university, and now he is working as a writer and communicating mainly about troubles in human relationships. ●Click here for detailed profile https://brweb.jp/profile/ ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ About this channel ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ This channel is only about talking about your troubles from the perspective of a counselor and advisor with the aim of resolving them. Thank you for your understanding. Please also take a look at the channel description. #Family #FamilyRelationships #Relationships