What you think about yourself and your child influences their behavior. If our children become shy, insecure or happy or joyful or enthusiastic or self-confident, it largely depends on the information we have passed on to them, especially in the early years of life. Depending on who we are, we relax them or agitate them: I don't know if it happens to you, but it happens to me, when I'm a little more tense my daughter Viola immediately becomes more tense too; when I'm very calm, very relaxed, she also enjoys her days, her games. You will have noticed it too, it's as if there were a direct line that keeps us tied to our children, an indissoluble, subtle and very powerful bond. What we feel and transfer to them, develops their emotional intelligence. What is emotional intelligence? - It is the ability to govern emotions and guide them towards what we like and desire. - It is a drive to seek lasting benefits, it has to do with the ability to self-control, fundamental in the life of all of us. - It is enthusiasm, perseverance, self-determination: all those factors that are essential for happiness. Emotion means movement (derived from the Latin “emuvio”), a movement that is felt in the body, in fact when we are very tense we tremble, when we are very agitated our hands sweat, when we are afraid to speak our voice trembles. The body reacts to emotions and vice versa, so we experience our emotions through the body. What happens? That children feel them. They feel them but cannot explain them. What do we usually do? For example, does he argue with his little cousin? “Well, whoever started it, apologize right away! Give each other a kiss, hold hands and continue playing”. In this way, on an external level the situation is resolved, but on an emotional level it is not. Only you as a parent, more than anyone else, can help him understand what is happening inside him, to make him feel worthy and adequate. There are situations in which adults work so hard, yet they never manage to achieve what they want. And this is linked to "I believe I deserve or I don't believe I deserve": if your child doesn't believe he deserves, his unconscious mind distances him from his goals. Educare Facile helps you discover all the practical and daily secrets to help your children develop the belief "you deserve it, you deserve all the love in this world". A process so important that it creates in children the belief of "I deserve it", and the belief of "I deserve it" creates successful people. On the contrary, "not deserving" creates most of the problems we see today in our adult world. *********************************************************************** ​If you too want to identify and remove the most common behaviors that "create walls and barriers" with your child and learn to use the incredible power of emotions to be an authoritative guide (and an extraordinary parent)... ...discover EDUCARE FACILE The Video Course to learn how to manage your emotions, build a serene relationship in the family and realize your greatest dream: to help your child grow more autonomous, stronger and more self-confident. Click here: http://www.educarefacile.it/educare-f... =========================================================== YOUTUBE CHANNEL EDUCARE FACILE® SUBSCRIBE NOW TO OUR YOUTUBE CHANNEL, so you will always be updated on every new video published and you will always be the first to know all the news on the most up-to-date EDUCARE FACILE Strategies. SUBSCRIBE TO THE YOUTUBE CHANNEL: https://goo.gl/57ys6q ======================================================== EDUCARE FACILE® FAN PAGE Like the EDUCARE FACILE® Fan Page and stay up to date on all the news, conferences, articles and all the content for extraordinary parents like you! / educarefacile ============================================================== EDUCARE FACILE® FACEBOOK GROUP Subscribe to the EDUCARE FACILE® Facebook Group, the group of parents like you who have already decided to become leading parents! / educarefacile ====================================================== FOLLOW US ON THE EDUCARE FACILE® BLOG You will find all of Cristina Bari's articles with lots of free content to help you raise strong, happy and self-confident children. http://www.educarefacile.it ========================================================