Show Cardiac Logos - About God's Marriage SHOW 19 - Let the couple be careful when they write pieces of paper in the confessional! Questions Why does Revelation say that at the Second Coming we will receive a "new name", we will not be masses. "Convince them of your holy unity". And here you have said that the word of God is perfect. Can you explain it to us? How will we feel it deep inside that God "assures us" in our heart about unity? Can we say that this certainty is an "information" that comes to our soul? Many times during the period of searching for our partner we are anxious and there is no real trust in God and let alone the Church. We say: I want a Church girl, smelling of incense. The girl says: I want a good boy. What are these elements that should finally attract a man to finally make a proper marriage? Lord our God, who accompanied the child of the Patriarch Abraham in Mesopotamia. That is, he sent the man to find a girl from his place. So was he a localist? Does it matter if you get a girlfriend from your place? Should you meet the family of the girl or boy you want to marry before making the final decision? The man says to his wife: don't have too much trouble with your mother because she exerts a great influence on you, makes faces at me all the time, doesn't understand me, etc. and we end up demanding the wife to break the relationship with her mother. How should communication, the couple's relationship with their parents be in marriage? Please tell us a few words about honesty in marriage. Honesty between the couple is a matter of discrimination. So we say everything to each other? Do we tell the sins we confessed to our partner in marriage? Does this change in the engagement period? Knowing the incident in the Old Testament, the wish tells us that: you made clear your will for Isaac to propose to Rebecca through the mediation of the event of the water supply, when Abraham's servant asked Rebecca for water to quench her thirst and she willingly and with the above answered. This we know was a sign. Explain this point to us. How does this relate to today? Should we be looking for moves to see if the response is a sign? Could God have really shown a sign which you recognized as a sign of God, should you then as a spiritual person convey it to the couple? How is this incident connected to our prayer during the search for our man? We could easily say that this incident with Rebecca is a detail. But you have said that both during the search for a partner and in marriage we need to pay attention to the details. What are these details and do we have the discernment to pay attention to the details? When we are late in finding our partner and we have found him is there a danger in our haste not to lose her that we do not see these details? If we are blinded that after 20 years of searching we have finally found our man, is there a danger of forgetting God himself? How will we handle this with the spiritual? Is there a chance that someone will finally find their partner in their 40s or 50s? You often refer to gerontology in your talks, and you have said that it can especially help us humans to have the perfect marriage. But how can a religious book with stories of great desert ascetics be a very good help in marriage? Instead of getting toasters and juicers at weddings, is the gerontik the best gift?