Today I want to suggest five phrases to absolutely avoid, therefore to eliminate from your vocabulary, because they literally kill your child's self-esteem. The first phrase to avoid: "But you're stupid", "You're stupid". First of all because you are using the "You're" and when you use such a powerful verb you are directly touching your child's identity. It would be better to tell him "you behaved stupidly", this can be said because it is linked to behavior, but if you touch your child's identity you are directly touching his self-esteem. The second phrase to avoid: "You don't deserve it". "You don't deserve anything tonight because you made me angry", "You don't deserve to play with your sister because you treat her too badly". These are phrases that kill the child's self-esteem. There are adults who cannot have happy relationships, who cannot fulfill themselves at work, this does not depend on external circumstances, but on the deep conviction that exists within them (that they do not deserve it) and which is probably linked to a simple reprimand that their mother gave them on day X, because she wanted to take that annoying toy out of their hands at that moment. Discover the other phrases to avoid in my video. ******************************************************************* ​If you also want to identify and remove the most common behaviors that "create walls and barriers" with your child and learn to use the incredible power of emotions to be an authoritative guide (and an extraordinary parent) ... ... discover EDUCATE EASY The Video Course to learn how to manage your emotions, build a serene relationship in the family and realize your greatest dream: to help your child grow more autonomous, stronger and more self-confident. Click here: http://www.educarefacile.it/educare-f... =========================================================== YOUTUBE CHANNEL EDUCARE FACILE® SUBSCRIBE NOW TO OUR YOUTUBE CHANNEL, so you will always be updated on every new video published and you will always be the first to know all the news on the most up-to-date EDUCARE FACILE Strategies. SUBSCRIBE TO THE YOUTUBE CHANNEL: https://goo.gl/57ys6q ========================================================= EDUCARE FACILE® FAN PAGE Like the EDUCARE FACILE® Fan Page and stay up to date on all the news, conferences, articles and all the content for extraordinary parents like you! / educarefacile ============================================================== EDUCARE FACILE® FACEBOOK GROUP Subscribe to the EDUCARE FACILE® Facebook Group, the group of parents like you who have already decided to become leading parents! / educarefacile ====================================================== FOLLOW US ON THE EDUCARE FACILE® BLOG You will find all of Cristina Bari's articles with lots of free content to help you raise strong, happy and self-confident children. http://www.educarefacile.it ========================================================