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The parent leader is a parenting style that to be defined as such needs to respect rules, so you can truly call yourself a parent leader if you are master of these 10 steps, which I will now illustrate to you. 1. The parent leader knows how to talk to their children. They continuously build and nourish a constructive dialogue, in which empathy, that is, the ability to recognize the emotions of their child and to support them through communication, plays a fundamental role in everyday life. Today's children need to talk, talk, talk with their parents, to recognize them as a point of reference and above all to be able to talk to them about anything, their emotions, their fears, their problems. The parent leader is therefore someone who is able to constantly build and maintain a positive dialogue with their children. 2. The parent leader gives few rules, but clear and essential. Too many rules create rigidity and create insecurity in children. While instead there are few rules that are necessary to give your children the right points of reference. Rules are absolutely necessary for a child's good education, as long as they are clear, few and essential, thus leaving a space of autonomy to your children. I'll give you an example: a dictator parent (the opposite of a leader parent) tells their child "you have to study and immediately after lunch. At 2:00 pm you're already on the books, because then you have to hurry, you have to finish, we have to do something else". The leader parent, on the other hand, tells their child: "ok from two to eight is your space to study. At 8 pm you have dinner, after dinner you don't do homework, but before that you are free to manage this afternoon as you see fit. So, if after eating you are calm, quiet and ready to face homework with serenity, go ahead. If instead you want to rest, play a bit or do something else, take your time, manage your time independently, but know that after dinner there is no more homework to do". Where is the difference? Well, the difference is fundamental, because the first parent imposes a rule, the child must respect it otherwise there will be trouble; the second parent instead is working on the autonomy, on the independence of that child, is leading the child to become aware of the management of his own life, of a space of freedom in which to move and learn to self-manage. Discover all the other secrets in this video. *********************************************************************** If you also want to identify and remove the most common behaviors that "create walls and barriers" with your child and learn to use the incredible power of emotions to be an authoritative guide (and an extraordinary parent) ... ... discover EDUCATE EASY The Video Course to learn to manage your emotions, build a serene relationship in the family and realize your greatest dream: to help your child grow more autonomous, stronger and more self-confident. Click here: http://www.educarefacile.it/educare-f... =========================================================== YOUTUBE CHANNEL EDUCARE FACILE® SUBSCRIBE NOW TO OUR YOUTUBE CHANNEL, so you will always be updated on every new video published and you will always be the first to know all the news on the most up-to-date EDUCARE FACILE Strategies. SUBSCRIBE TO THE YOUTUBE CHANNEL: https://goo.gl/57ys6q ======================================================== EDUCARE FACILE® FAN PAGE Like the EDUCARE FACILE® Fan Page and stay up to date on all the news, conferences, articles and all the content for extraordinary parents like you! / educarefacile ============================================================== EDUCARE FACILE® FACEBOOK GROUP Subscribe to the EDUCARE FACILE® Facebook Group, the group of parents like you who have already decided to become leading parents! / educarefacile ====================================================== FOLLOW US ON THE EDUCARE FACILE® BLOG You will find all of Cristina Bari's articles with lots of free content to help you raise strong, happy and self-confident children. http://www.educarefacile.it ========================================================