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???? EMPEROR CHILD SYNDROME, OR TYRANT CHILD. DO YOU WANT TO SEE AN EXAMPLE OF A TYRANT CHILD OR EMPEROR? HERE IT IS, I'M SURE YOU ALREADY KNOW IT⤵️ • Harry Potter: Dudley's Gifts ????Do you need support? Here you can find my contacts⤵️ https://pilloledinido.wordpress.com/ Below you can find my Amazon list with little books, games and much more for your child⤵️ https://www.amazon.it/shop/pillole.di... #pilloledinido #childpsychology #childemperor #tyrantchild ‐------------------------------------------------------------------- Let's clear the field of the misunderstanding that the word "syndrome" can bring with it: "We are not talking about a genetic disorder: it generally develops due to an overly permissive family context and the lack of rules given by parents to their children for fear of hurting them. ❓️What are the characteristics of the child king? ????️Exaggerated perception of what he deserves. He does not ask, he demands; to the point of never being satisfied. When he gets what he wants, he wants something else. ????️Low tolerance for frustration, boredom or denial when faced with what he has requested. In these cases he reacts with fits of anger, insults (which start from you are ugly bad) ????️He has few strategies to solve problems on his own. He is used to others solving them for him. ????️He is not capable of empathy. Therefore he does not show any remorse when he yells, threatens or physically attacks. ????️He has low self-esteem, Most of the time he is sad, anxious, angry, etc. ????????????The child is within a role (adult) that does not belong to him. ❌️You do not say NO to him because you fear his reaction. ????But the child needs to hear NO, to move within safe, stable limits and boundaries that the parents set. You can embrace the child's needs without losing your parental role. ❤️ ????Often these children feel very "strong" within the home walls, but a great insecurity arises because outside the home they inevitably clash with frustrations, and not having acquired valid tools to manage them (together with their parents, the people they love most in the world and must trust) how can they think of dealing with them alone? ????And there is the risk that with growth feelings of depression, anxiety, emotional and sometimes personality disorders appear.