Widow at 21. It happened to Marieke Mulder. Marieke was 18 when she met Wesley at the neighborhood party. They quickly had a special connection. But Wesley also realized very well what his situation was. At that time, he had been told six months ago that he had colon cancer. Despite the fact that he found it exciting to start a relationship at such a time, they both wanted to try. In addition, all treatments and operations had been successful. Things looked good for Wesley. A few months later, Wesley was declared clean. They did know that there was a big chance that the cancer would return at some point. But that would hopefully only be a worry far in the future. After six months, Wesley had to go back for his first check-up. Unfortunately, things went wrong there right away. The cancer had returned. A big blow and news that you actually did not expect. It was a very beautiful and intense relationship. You are dealing with subjects that you should not be dealing with at all at such an age. Chemo radiation, Wesley's health. That was all paramount. It was a long road with many treatments. In September 2005 they received the bad news that they could no longer do anything for Wesley. He was allowed to live for another 3 months. During that period they entered into a registered partnership because Wesley wanted to leave Marieke in good condition. Today I will talk to Marieke about what that is like at that age, how does your environment deal with it? And how do you continue with your own life? With love, Annemiek Discover more about grief: COACHING WITH GRIEF LIVE EVENT - September 14, 2023 Discover knowledge, tools and skills to successfully coach with grief so that you give clients who are experiencing grief the best results, people want to pay for your expertise while at the same time you make a valuable contribution to the lives of others. https://griefacademy.lpages.co/live/ FREE WEBINAR COACHING WITH GRIEF Are you a coach, HR professional or therapist and do you want to further develop your skills in the field of grief counseling? Register for the webinar 'Coaching in Grief'. This event is specially designed to give you knowledge and insight into the complex world of grief and loss. You will also discover how I started the Grief.Academy and what it takes to be visible. https://grief-academy.webinargeek.com... GRIEF EXPERT TRAINING As a grief expert, it is wonderful to support your client in the grief journey. With the right conversation techniques, tools and mindset, you can be the mirror and the safe beacon in which intrinsic growth is realized and even more life is discovered. Have you experienced loss yourself and do you want to offer the help that you yourself have missed? Become a grief expert. I will help you with the knowledge, tools and marketing. Register for the selection interview in which we will see together whether you can cash in on all the value of the training. Manu Keirse is also affiliated with this training as a guest lecturer. https://www.grief.academy/rouwexperto... FREE WEBINAR 'HOW DO YOU DEAL WITH GRIEF?' Every Saturday I give a webinar about grief. Especially for you if you are experiencing loss or want to help someone else. I share knowledge, experience and practical tips for an hour that you can use right away. I also take the time to answer your questions. https://www.grief.academy/webinar 'IK BEN ER' My new book is out. 111 tips to help friends, family members, neighbors, colleagues and relationships with loss. View and order the book here: https://griefacademy.plugandpay.nl/ch...