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"There are relationships that make me feel uneasy. Should I leave them?" It's hard to know when a relationship ends. Many people try to judge it based on "dislike." In reality, the more you dislike someone, the more conscious you become of them. You can't let go, right? It's not that, it's the end of a relationship. There is a point that leads to its demise. What kind of relationships specifically should not continue? We've talked about that. [Kokoreta ⇒ Register for free to receive comforting words at least twice a month] We're giving away a limited article on steps to living as an affable lone wolf. More details available here: https://coco-letter.medy.jp/p/6e19aa3... ▼Table of contents▼ 0:00 Today's theme 0:44 ① When you're annoyed, not because you dislike them 2:50 ② They often say and do things that make you feel uneasy 4:46 ③ You feel exhausted after meeting them 7:37 ④ They keep repeating the things you told them to stop 9:31 ⑤ Your heart starts to race when they contact you 12:02 ⑥ You no longer want to change the other person 14:17 ⑦ You don't remember hurting them 17:00 Summary: The key points of this episode ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ YouTube Membership ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ --Plus, watch all the exclusive videos that teach you about relationships and how to live + receive words of insight every day. Click here for YouTube membership ▶ / @cocoyowa ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ Ryota's books━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ ▼Latest Amazon "How to talk like a sensitive person, your mental fatigue disappears" https://amzn.asia/d/fWSf2NS ▼Amazon "I've decided to stop being manipulated" https://amzn.to/3tFimKy ▶Click here for a list of his books https://brweb.jp/ryota_book/ ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ Community for sensitive people━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ ーーCocoiro Salon▶https://lounge.dmm.com/detail/3588/ ☆You can learn from the various messages of experts with HSP temperament and interact with other participants. First, you will learn how to improve your self-esteem (self-affirmation), and then you can build relationships with peace of mind. It is a hybrid community of learning and exchange, where even those who have somehow failed in relationships can learn and use it. Various events and weekly radio live shows are also held. ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ About consultation and information on how to live as an HSP━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ ☆Learning and consultation service mainly for HSPs [HSP Textbook] More than 6,000 people have subscribed to it so far. A weekly e-mail magazine with 20,000 to 50,000 characters of information on human relationships, HSP, HSS-type HSP, and HSE. Various content is available, such as limited live shows, limited radio, limited videos, and consultation forms. Please also use it if you would like to consult Ryota about your worries. I will explain each one in detail. *Consultations unrelated to HSPs...work and family relationships are also welcome. I will answer as an advisor. ーーDetails and registration here↓↓ ▶https://cocoyowa.com/mail-magazine/hs... *Won 1st place in the 2020 MagMag Grand Prize Newcomer Award. *Won 1st place in the 2021 MagMag Grand Prize by them Award. ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ Related, educational videos━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ ● "How to leave peacefully" 7 points to properly fade out, cutting ties with people • "How to leave peacefully" 7 points to properly fade out, cutting ties with people ● [Basic knowledge about leaving people] 7 methods and ways of thinking for letting go of bothersome relationships • [Basic knowledge about leaving people] 7 methods and ways of thinking for letting go of bothersome relationships ● Leaving is the winner! 7 characteristics and ways of thinking of "people who treat people as objects" • Leaving is the winner! 7 characteristics and ways of thinking of "people who treat people as objects" ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ Related, must-read blog articles━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ ● A blog that makes life easier for HSP and sensitive people https://cocoyowa.com/ ● A summary of each diagnostic test for HSP "The three types: introverted HSP, HSS type, and HSE" https://cocoyowa.com/test/ ●Ryota's lifestyle and column blog https://brweb.jp/ ●The ultimate solo technique. When you're having trouble with relationships, try living as a "friendly lone wolf." What is the secret to not making enemies, as taught by a counselor? https://brweb.jp/life/lone-wolf/ ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ Ryota's social media accounts ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ ● Blog [Cocoyowa] https://cocoyowa.com/ ● instagram / ryo_shigoto ● stand.fm (Radio - Answering letters) https://stand.fm/channels/5f5c6ddcf04... ● Voicy (Radio - Lifestyle, Relaxed Living) https://voicy.jp/channel/1959 ● Threads https://www.threads.net/@ryo_shigoto ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ Brief profile ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ Ryota Born in 1984. During college, he took courses in healing music, hearing, psychology, gender, etc. (Degree: Arts) He is also a strong HSP himself, and has experienced five job ch