"They say kind people are scarier, but why?" Are there any kind people around you who attract people? Kind people don't seem to get angry at first glance. However, the way they get angry is different. People who are always angry tend to let out their feelings. Surprisingly, the relationship often returns to normal. On the other hand, when a kind person gets angry, it can be a big explosion. Even if the people around them don't understand, it's a big explosion in their heart. What are they thinking? We have explained the key points. ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ [Kokoreta ⇒ Register for free to receive words of comfort at least twice a month] We are giving away limited articles on steps to living as a friendly lone wolf. More details available here: https://coco-letter.medy.jp/p/6e19aa3... ▼Table of contents▼ 00:00 Today's theme 00:53 ① Getting angry quietly 03:02 ② Holding back for a long time 05:29 ③ Getting angry and becoming even more annoyed 07:35 ④ Building up your feelings until they explode 09:55 ⑤ Easily turning others to your side 12:36 ⑥ Remembering what was done to you 14:49 ⑦ Finding it difficult to restore relationships 17:04 Summary: What we especially want you to remember ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ YouTube Membership ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ --All exclusive videos that answer the concerns of families and couples are available to watch + receive words of insight every day Click here to join YouTube membership ▶ / @cocoyowa ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ Ryota's books ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ ▼New book Amazon "I decided to live a little more loosely while remaining serious" (Seishun Publishing) https://amzn.asia/d/07bMpqpY ▼Amazon "I decided to stop being swayed" https://amzn.to/3tFimKy ▶Click here for a list of his books https://brweb.jp/ryota_book/ ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ Community for sensitive people ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ ーーCocoiro Salon ▶https://lounge.dmm.com/detail/3588/ ☆You can learn from the various messages of experts with HSP temperament and interact with other participants. First, you will learn how to improve your self-esteem (self-affirmation), and then you can build relationships with peace of mind. It is a hybrid community of learning and exchange that can be used by those who have somehow failed in relationships. Various events and weekly radio shows are also held. ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ About consultation and information on how to live as an HSP━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ ☆Learning and consultation service mainly for HSPs [HSP Textbook] More than 6,000 people have subscribed to it so far. A weekly e-mail magazine with 20,000 to 50,000 characters of information on human relationships, HSP, HSS-type HSP, and HSE. Various content is available, such as limited live shows, limited radio, limited videos, and consultation forms. Please use it if you want to consult Ryota about your worries. I will explain each one in detail. *Consultations that are not related to HSPs...work or family relationships are also welcome. 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What is the secret to not making enemies, as taught by a counselor? https://brweb.jp/life/lone-wolf/ ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ Ryota's social media accounts━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ ● Blog [Cocoyowa] https://cocoyowa.com/ ● instagram / ryo_shigoto ● stand.fm (Radio - Answering letters) https://stand.fm/channels/5f5c6ddcf04... ● Voicy (Radio - Lifestyle, Relaxed Living) https://voicy.jp/channel/1959 ● Threads https://www.threads.net/@ryo_shigoto ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ Brief profile━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ Ryota Born in 1984. During college, he took courses in healing music, hearing, psychology, gender, etc. (Degree: Arts) He is also a strong HSP himself, and has experienced five job changes and relationship problems. He has multiple titles, including mental psychology counselor, behavioral psychologist, composer, and lecturer. He is a father of two children. ・Operates "HSP Textbook" with the aim of providing consultation and lifestyle information for HSPs. ・Published books by a total of four companies, including KADOKAWA and SB Creative. ・Operates "Cocoiro Salon", a community for HSPs, and is currently holding various events. ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ About this channel ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ *HSP is a temperament and a psychological term that describes people who are highly sensitive to the environment. (For better or worse, they are easily influenced by the environment.) Just because you are HSP does not mean that you are "difficult to live" or "something". In addition, this channel is only about talking about your problems from an advisor's perspective, with the aim of solving your problems. Please be aware of this. Please also take a look at the channel description. #Relationships #Personality #Kind people