"I'm not good at making small talk with people, I'm scared..." You worry about what to talk about when making small talk. There is a trick to keeping a conversation going. I'm scared of conversation. The more scared you are of small talk, the more you raise the bar. The content of the small talk can be anything. How should you think about it specifically? What should you keep in mind? I've talked in detail. ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ [Kokoreta ⇒ Register for free to receive words of comfort at least twice a month] We are giving away limited articles on steps to living as a friendly lone wolf. More details available here: https://coco-letter.theletter.jp/post... ▼Table of contents▼ 00:00 Today's theme00:38 ① Focus only on the conversation rally03:15 ② The conversation doesn't have to have a punch line04:59 ③ Infuse emotion into the conversation07:14 ④ Let the environment help you09:28 ⑤ Ask the other person questions11:58 ⑥ Listen carefully to their answers14:47 ⑦ Don't think too much about showing off your best self17:43 Summary: Things you especially need to remember━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ YouTube Membership━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ ----- Exclusive videos that explain the worries of families, parents and children, and couples, all available to watch + receive words of insight every day Click here for YouTube membership▶ / @cocoyowa ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ Ryota's books━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ ▼New book Amazon "I've decided to try living a little more loosely while remaining serious" (Seishun Publishing) https://amzn.asia/d/07bMpqpY ▼Amazon "I've decided to stop being pushed around" https://amzn.to/3tFimKy ▶Click here for a list of his books https://brweb.jp/ryota_book/ ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ Related, educational videos ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ ●[Avoid this] 7 mistakes that people who are not good at small talk make unconsciously/What are the reasons why a conversation doesn't last? • [Avoid this] 7 mistakes that people who are not good at small talk make unconsciously/What are the reasons why a conversation doesn't last? ●[No need to talk too much] Things to be careful of for people who are not good at conversation/What are the points that lead to misunderstandings? • [No need to talk too much] Things to be careful of for people who are not good at conversation/What are the points that lead to misunderstandings? ●[Causes of being disliked] 7 actions you should absolutely avoid during a conversation/What are the points that lead to discomfort? • [Causes of being disliked] 7 actions you should absolutely avoid during a conversation / Points that lead to discomfort... ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ Related blog articles you should read ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ ●A blog that makes life easier for HSPs and sensitive people https://cocoyowa.com/ ●A summary of various diagnostic tests for HSPs "The three types: introverted HSP, HSS type, and HSE" https://cocoyowa.com/test/ ●Ryota's lifestyle and column blog https://brweb.jp/ ●[Archive version] Things to try when you can't keep a job and feel self-loathing: What methods can you use to work without pushing yourself too hard? https://brweb.jp/life/mental/ ●The ultimate solo technique. When you're having trouble with your relationships, try living like an "affable lone wolf." What is the secret to not making enemies, as taught by a counselor? https://brweb.jp/life/lone-wolf/ ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ Ryota's social media accounts━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ ● Blog [Cocoyowa] https://cocoyowa.com/ ● instagram / ryo_shigoto ● stand.fm (Radio - Answering letters) https://stand.fm/channels/5f5c6ddcf04... ● Voicy (Radio - Lifestyle, Relaxed Living) https://voicy.jp/channel/1959 ● Threads https://www.threads.net/@ryo_shigoto ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ Brief profile━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ Ryota Born in 1984. He has qualifications as a mental health counselor and behavioral psychologist, interpersonal skills acquired through more than 15 years of parallel work in manufacturing and lecturing, and experience studying healing through music, psychology and ethics at university, and now he is working as a writer and communicating mainly about troubles in human relationships. ●Click here for detailed profile details: https://brweb.jp/profile/ ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ About this channel ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ This channel is only about talking about your troubles from the perspective of a counselor and advisor, with the aim of solving your troubles. Thank you for your understanding. Please also take a look at the channel description. #How to keep a conversation going #Conversation #Chat