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The quality of our relationship with our life partner affects our life both at home and at work. It has an impact on our health, mood, capabilities, self-confidence as well. It is one thing to choose a partner for life together, another - to build a life together in such a way that it gives both partners more than they take, including in the long term. In this conversation, Nancy Libiete talks about what happens in a couple's relationship in its different phases and how we can enrich and maintain our relationship. Nansija Lībiete is a systemic family psychotherapy specialist who has 7 years of practical work experience in counseling individuals, families and couples, incl. in divorce situations, in individual systemic psychotherapy, and 11 years of practical work experience leading a cycle of seminars for post-divorce support. She teaches the course "Support after Divorce". More information on the conversation page here: https://ugunsskola.lv/cilvekjauda154 CONVERSATION POINTS: 0:00 Introduction 5:14 What is characteristic of the first phase of partnership relations 13:02 Examples of how unresolved issues in the second phase of relations lead to crises 24:09 Techniques and recommendations , which helps to sort out painful issues in mutual relations 58:05 Realization of reality in the second phase of the relationship - how to spot signals in time when it is wiser to "roll the fishing rod" 1:17:11 What risks appear in the third phase - the stability phase of the relationship 1:28:36 "We have to think , in which way we will enrich and maintain our relationship" 1:34:27 How to activate the "lust apparatus" in the direction of your partner 1:44:52 Advice on how to better feel myself and understand what I really want 1:50:55 When to split a relationship with the third, which is difficult to compete with - a smart device