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"For some reason, wherever I go, people avoid me..." It's frustrating not knowing why. If it's like this wherever you go, it's possible that people are avoiding you in some way. There are many possible reasons, but I've mentioned seven typical ones. By the way, unknowingly causing trouble. This is more common than you might think. Please listen to it for learning. ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ [Kokoreta ⇒ Register for free to receive comforting words at least twice a month] We are giving away limited articles on steps to living as a friendly lone wolf. Click here for more details: https://coco-letter.medy.jp/p/6e19aa3... ▼Table of contents▼ 00:00 Today's theme00:39 ① There is too little information about you02:58 ② People think you are harmful04:35 ③ Bad timing for conversation06:20 ④ Absence of others, or lack of interest in them08:47 ⑤ You are causing trouble without knowing it11:11 ⑥ Repeating the same conversation13:03 ⑦ People think you are overly considerate15:04 Summary: What you especially need to remember━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ YouTube Membership━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ - Exclusive videos that explain the worries of families, parents and children, and couples, all available to watch + receive words of insight every day Click here for YouTube membership▶ / @cocoyowa ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ Ryota's books━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ ▼New book Amazon "I've decided to try living a little more loosely while remaining serious" (Seishun Publishing) https://amzn.asia/d/07bMpqpY ▼Amazon "I've decided to stop being manipulated" https://amzn.to/3tFimKy ▶Click here for a list of his books https://brweb.jp/ryota_book/ ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ Related, educational videos ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ ●[Actually scary] What people who don't get angry are really thinking/What is the moment their hearts cool down and what is their psychology? • [Actually scary] What people who don't get angry are really thinking/What is the moment their hearts cool down and what is their psychology? ●[Manual to fight off harassment] 7 ways to avoid being the target of malicious people/Let's put an end to being attacked wherever you go! • [Manual to fight off harassment] 7 ways to avoid being the target of malicious people/Let's put an end to being attacked wherever you go! ●[Vicious cycle] The real reason why you should not look down on yourself/What are the psychological effects of increasing losses? • [Vicious cycle] The real reason why you should never look down on yourself / The psychology behind increasing losses... ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ Related blog articles you should read ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ ● A blog that makes life easier for HSPs and sensitive people https://cocoyowa.com/ ● A summary of various diagnostic tests for HSPs "The three types: introverted HSP, HSS type, and HSE" https://cocoyowa.com/test/ ● Ryota's lifestyle and column blog https://brweb.jp/ ● [Archival version] Things to try when you can't keep a job and feel self-loathing: What methods can you use to work without pushing yourself into a corner? https://brweb.jp/life/mental/ ● The ultimate technique for working alone. When you're having trouble with your relationships, try living as an "affable lone wolf". What is the secret to not making enemies, as taught by a counselor? https://brweb.jp/life/lone-wolf/ ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ Ryota's social media accounts━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ ● Blog [Cocoyowa] https://cocoyowa.com/ ● instagram / ryo_shigoto ● stand.fm (Radio - Answering letters) https://stand.fm/channels/5f5c6ddcf04... ● Voicy (Radio - Lifestyle, Relaxed Living) https://voicy.jp/channel/1959 ● Threads https://www.threads.net/@ryo_shigoto ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ Brief profile━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ Ryota Born in 1984. He has qualifications as a mental health counselor and behavioral psychologist, interpersonal skills acquired through more than 15 years of parallel work in manufacturing and lecturing, and experience studying healing through music, psychology and ethics at university, and now he is working as a writer and communicating mainly about troubles in human relationships. ●Click here for detailed profile https://brweb.jp/profile/ ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ About this channel ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ This channel is only about talking about your troubles from the perspective of a counselor and advisor with the aim of resolving them. Thank you for your understanding. Please also take a look at the channel description. #Relationships #Interpersonal Relationships #Psychology