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In today's episode of the podcast "Make a Masterpiece of Life", a unique conversation about us, i.e. about contemporary society. Prof. dr hab. Tomasz Sobierajski, sociologist and researcher of social behavior, counts and points, sometimes even painfully. As he says: "You can't be a playful kid your whole life". About how we don't want to grow up and take responsibility for our development, how we constantly look for someone to blame and how we excessively focus on ourselves and our happiness, and thus sink into loneliness. Basically, about the fact that we are often guilty ourselves, but life is not a concert of excuses and accusations. Ani Oszajcy told us what a masterpiece is for him and how to remember that people are simply human. The conclusion from this conversation - start living and look at others. Empathy and understanding will pave the way for your fulfillment. Listen and stop in reflection, and then... fight! ???? ____________________________________________________________________________________________________ ✔ Subscribe to this channel ???? / @zrobzzyciaarcydzielo ✔ Follow Tomasz Sobierajski: ???? https://www.tomaszsobierajski.com/ ???? / tommysobierajski ???? / tommy.sobierajski ✔ Follow Anna Oszajca: ???? https://www.annaoszajca.com/ ???? / @annaoszajca ???? / annaoszajca ???? / oszajcaanna ✔ The book mentioned in the conversation: ???? “Maturity. How to find yourself in the culture of childishness” Eliza Michalik, Tomasz Sobierajski ____________________________________________________________________________________________ 00:00:00 Preview 00:00:50 Introduction 00:01:26 What is one thing worth knowing about Tomek? 00:06:30 On the art of listening 00:12:56 Where did Tomek get the idea to study sociology? 00:17:16 About the book “Maturity. How to find yourself in the culture of childishness” 00:22:15 Where does people’s resistance to responsibility come from? 00:24:35 On changes in the perception of relationships with parents 00:34:18 How to take responsibility for yourself? 00:37:10 Why do we stay in the past? 00:40:14 What are “red flags”? 00:45:03 On support and honesty with others and with yourself 00:48:47 On pop psychology 00:54:16 What does Tomek think it means to make a masterpiece of life? 00:57:41 Is calling life a “masterpiece” high-flown? 00:59:32 Conclusion