"For some reason, wherever I go, people are mean to me..." Have you ever been worried about this? Wherever you go, there will be people who are mean to you and bully you. You may have some characteristics that make you an easy target for such people. So, what do people who are mean pay attention to? We have discussed this in detail. There are some aspects that are not easy, but being aware of it to the extent that you can will lead to change. First, think about whether there are any areas that apply to you. ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ [Kokoreta ⇒ Register for free to receive comforting words at least twice a month] We are currently giving away limited articles on steps to living as a friendly lone wolf. More details available here: https://coco-letter.medy.jp/p/6e19aa3... ▼Table of contents▼ 00:00 Today's theme00:41 ① Easily isolated02:37 ② There are elements that make you an easy target04:52 ③ Holding back even when you cross a certain line08:06 ④ A strong desire for attention10:21 ⑤ Disliked by influential people13:21 ⑥ Your behavior in that place is misaligned15:40 ⑦ Getting too close to problematic people17:37 Summary: Things you especially need to remember━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ YouTube Membership━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ ----- Exclusive videos that answer the concerns of families and couples, all available to watch + receive words of insight every day Click here for YouTube membership▶ / @cocoyowa ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ Ryota's books━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ ▼New release Amazon "I've decided to try living a slightly more relaxed life while remaining serious" (Seishun Publishing) https://amzn.asia/d/07bMpqpY ▼Amazon "I've decided to stop being manipulated" https://amzn.to/3tFimKy ▶Click here for a list of his bookshttps://brweb.jp/ryota_book/ ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ Related, instructive videos━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ ●Don't put up with it! This is how to deal with mean people/7 points to stop you from giving in and losing your temper • Don't put up with it! This is how to deal with mean people/7 points to stop you from giving in and losing your temper ●[This might be the cause] A thorough explanation of the bad behaviors that make people feel hostile towards you/What are you doing without realizing it? • [This might be the cause] A thorough explanation of the bad behaviors that make people feel hostile towards you/What are you doing without realizing it? ●[Why don't you leave? 】The reason why people who badmouth others are more attached to you / Explains the thoughts of the type of person who cannot keep themselves together • 【Why don't they leave? 】The reason why people who badmouth others are more attached to you / Explains the thoughts of the type of person who cannot keep themselves together... ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ Related blog articles you should read━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ ●A blog that makes life easier for HSPs and sensitive people https://cocoyowa.com/ ●A summary of each diagnostic test for HSPs "The three types: introverted HSP, HSS type, and HSE" https://cocoyowa.com/test/ ●Ryota's lifestyle and column blog https://brweb.jp/ ●【Archival version】What to try when you can't keep a job and feel self-loathing What methods can you use to work without pushing yourself into a corner? https://brweb.jp/life/mental/ ●The strongest solo technique. When you have trouble with relationships, live as a "friendly lone wolf". What is the secret to not making enemies, as taught by a counselor? https://brweb.jp/life/lone-wolf/ ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ Ryota's social media accounts━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ ● Blog [Cocoyowa] https://cocoyowa.com/ ● instagram / ryo_shigoto ● stand.fm (Radio - Answering letters) https://stand.fm/channels/5f5c6ddcf04... ● Voicy (Radio - Lifestyle, Relaxed Living) https://voicy.jp/channel/1959 ● Threads https://www.threads.net/@ryo_shigoto ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ Brief profile━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ Ryota Born in 1984. He has qualifications as a mental health counselor and behavioral psychologist, interpersonal skills acquired through more than 15 years of parallel work in manufacturing and lecturing, and experience studying healing through music, psychology and ethics at university, and now he is working as a writer and communicating mainly about troubles in human relationships. ●Click here for detailed profile https://brweb.jp/profile/ ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ About this channel ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ This channel is only about talking about your troubles from the perspective of a counselor and advisor with the aim of resolving them. Thank you for your understanding. Please also take a look at the channel description. #Relationships #Interpersonal Relationships #Psychology