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BLACK FRIDAY WITH Bonnie&Slide: master the modern and profitable profession of a presentation designer with a 60% discount using the promo code Prosto — https://clck.ru/3EGssS In the film, we raise one of the most painful and taboo topics — sexual abuse of children. We will analyze what sexualized violence and pedophilia are, what the relationship between an adult rapist and a victim is, what attracts pedophiles to their victims, and why adults rape children in general. We will find out why children remain silent about the rape they have experienced, what are the consequences of the violence they have experienced, and what to do when a child tells about what happened. You can read us on Telegram channels: Karina https://t.me/istominakarina Natasha https://t.me/hadeout Center "Coping is Easier" https://t.me/handlingbettercenter Center for behavioral therapy "Coping is Easier" - https://handlingbetter.ru Evgenia Smolenskaya, clinical psychologist https://esmolenskaya.online/ Center "Sisters" provides assistance and support to survivors of sexualized violence and their loved ones. You can contact the Center by calling the helpline +7 (499) 901-02-01 or writing to the crisis mail [email protected]. Support the work of the Sisters Center, make a one-time donation or subscribe to a monthly payment: https://donate.sisters-help.ru/ Nastya Krasilnikova, investigative journalist Podcast "Daughter of the Robber": https://podcast.ru/1540573120/e Telegram channel "Vashu mat!": https://t.me/s/vashumat Instagram: / unsudden Anna Mezhova, writer, psychologist https://t.me/anna_a_me / @anna_mezhova The Meta company, which owns the social networks Facebook and Instagram, is recognized as extremist in the Russian Federation. Proposals for cooperation [email protected] Support the channel https://www.donationalerts.com/r/spra... "They Will Believe You", an organization helping survivors of sexual abuse in childhood and adolescence: https://verimtebe.ru Ask for help: https://verimtebe.ru Timestamps 00:00 What our film is about 02:27 What is sexualized violence? 06:23 Is it possible to get a child's consent to sex? 07:29 "I kept waking up in his bed." The stories of Tatyana and Denis 15:40 "The child was pleased" 20:06 "Care": the relationship between the rapist and the victim 29:46 Is attraction to children innate? 33:15 What attracts you to your victims 37:14 "He did whatever he wanted with me" 38:16 Can pedophiles like adults? 40:55 Attraction to teenagers 14-18 years old - pedophilia? 43:17 Grooming 50:00 Values of rapists 52:53 Teacher-student relationships 57:13 Safe age difference 1:00:59 Why do people harass younger siblings? 1:02:04 "The child himself seduced me" 1:05:47 How to talk to a child about the principles of consent 1:07:46 Parents having sex in front of children 1:14:30 "He bribed my silence with chocolate and candy" 1:15:50 Why do people rape their own children? 1:21:56 Why don't mothers believe that their children are raped? 1:33:09 "Everything good in relation to the mother has died" 1:35:25 Why do people keep silent about violence? 1:38:04 The child told about the violence he experienced. What to do? 1:39:22 The consequences of the violence he experienced 1:47:54 What influences the manifestations of trauma 1:49:41 How Tatyana and Denis coped with their experiences 1:55:12 Results