Soran doesn't fit into any category. He was a couples therapist, sports manager, actor, boxer, dancer, and much more. In conversation with Ben, he explains his view of masculinity and femininity, the nature of people and how we as a society are moving further and further away from it. 0:00:00 - Highlights & Channel Intro 0:00:29 - Self-love harms people 0:02:17 - More and more people are incapable of relationships 0:03:53 - Everything in life has a price 0:05:14 - What makes a good life? 0:06:49 - Are we all prostitutes? 0:09:08 - Why is Soran a good podcast guest? 0:11:21 - Soran's teacher said he would become a millionaire 0:13:12 - Soran builds a diesel engine into a Mercedes coupe 0:16:10 - Soran's youth: girlfriend in Amsterdam 0:17:33 - Why has Soran never drunk alcohol? 0:18:49 - Soran always wanted to be something special 0:21:07 - When your talent gets big enough, the world creates itself around your talent 0:22:30 - Universal and specific talents 0:23:37 - You should live as close to your nature as possible 0:24:53 - Genes dictate every person's path 0:27:17 - Everyone would like to be attractive and sexy 0:28:21 - Does everyone have a special talent? 0:30:28 - Everyone should make friends with their nature 0:32:17 - The goal is self-acceptance, not self-love 0:33:58 - Soran's recipe for a happy life 0:36:03 - Difficult: For example, is shyness natural or caused by trauma? 0:37:41 - How do you analyze a person's life situation? 0:40:40 - Research nature, accept it and potentially change behavior 0:41:48 - WOMEN 0:42:32 - Do women have self-esteem problems? 0:45:00 - Markers 0:45:36 - Happiness research: What makes people happy? 0:46:51 - Mainstream happiness research under criticism 0:49:24 - Happiness research on children is more honest than on adults 0:51:28 - More life tips for women 0:56:10 - The price of equal rights for women 0:57:58 - The price of emancipation 1:00:02 - Problems of modern women 1:01:01 - Advice for a daughter 1:02:42 - Should women who need intellectual stimulation become mothers? 1:04:46 - Love arises from dependence 1:06:22 - Summary of Soran's position on women and men 1:08:53 - Intellectual stimulation for mothers 1:10:16 - Life tips for men 1:13:19 - What are society's expectations of men? 1:15:35 - Men in other societies 1:17:58 - Happiness in Germany often lies in work 1:20:17 - What are German men doing wrong? 1:21:10 - Women are peacemakers 1:21:50 - Relationships between “modern” women and “modern” men 1:24:03 - Consequences of less sexual attraction between men and women 1:24:38 - Modern women over 28 turn to softer men 1:25:54 - The alpha man 1:27:39 - Women create playboys 1:29:21 - Modern society wants to be above biology 1:30:18 - Alpha men should father all children and beta men should care for them 1:35:20 - Who would be the optimal man for a woman? 1:40:07 - Women who have already had “Alphasex” make different decisions 1:42:16 - How do you become an alpha man? 1:44:09 - What do you do as a beta man? 1:46:00 - How to choose a partner at swinger parties 1:48:39 - Alcohol and sex: A dangerous combination for women 1:52:18 - The consequences of alcohol for men 1:53:33 - This is why women want spontaneous sex 1:55:05 - Alpha men don't need to drink to get courage 1:56:11 - Beta men need to develop skills 1:57:54 - What exactly does a beta man have to do for sex? 2:00:14 - Alcohol and showmanship turn most men into victims 2:00:47 - How does a man become an alpha? 2:05:21 - The foundation for real alphas lies in childhood 2:06:25 - When can you fall in love again? 2:07:18 - Most relationships only compensate for the pain of the ex-partner 2:11:04 - Summary: This is what an instinct-driven world would be like 2:13:55 - Women today mostly have unrealistic self-images 2:18:55 - If women could look into the heads of men 2:19:50 - Do you want more Soran? 2:20:51 - Subscribe to my channel {unscripted} - Thanks, Ben #wisdom #wisdoms #relationshippsychology #men #women #relationship #psychology #interview #podcastgerman #soran #unscripted #interviewpodcast #masculinity