"I'm harassed wherever I go..." In this case, you may be unnecessarily labelling someone as an enemy. This is when people label other people as enemies. Of course, there are cases where nothing can be done... People may not realise that they are harmful, or it may stimulate feelings of inferiority. This is often the case. We have explained the psychological aspects as well. Please make use of it. ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ [Kokoreta ⇒ Register for free to receive comforting words at least twice a month] We are giving away a limited article on steps to living as a friendly lone wolf. For more details, please see: https://coco-letter.medy.jp/p/6e19aa3... ▼Table of contents▼ 00:00 Today's theme00:21 ① Don't make people think you're a harmful person03:24 ② Don't stimulate feelings of inferiority05:52 ③ Review your own habits08:34 ④ Don't try to win11:17 ⑤ Value your own opinion14:36 ​​⑥ Don't be too enthusiastic at the start16:17 ⑦ Don't talk too much one-sidedly18:43 Summary: Things you especially need to remember━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ YouTube Membership━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ ----- Exclusive videos that answer the concerns of families and couples, all available to watch + receive words of inspiration every day Click here to join YouTube membership▶ / @cocoyowa ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ Ryota's books━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ ▼New book Amazon "I decided to live a little more loosely while remaining serious" (Seishun Publishing) https://amzn.asia/d/07bMpqpY ▼Amazon "I decided to stop being swayed" https://amzn.to/3tFimKy ▶Click here for a list of his books https://brweb.jp/ryota_book/ ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ Community for sensitive people ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ ーーCocoiro Salon ▶https://lounge.dmm.com/detail/3588/ ☆You can learn from the various messages of experts with HSP temperament and interact with other participants. First, you will learn how to improve your self-esteem (self-affirmation), and then you can build relationships with peace of mind. It is a hybrid community of learning and exchange that can be used by those who have somehow failed in relationships. Various events and weekly radio shows are also held. ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ About consultation and information on how to live as an HSP━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ ☆Learning and consultation service mainly for HSPs [HSP Textbook] More than 6,000 people have subscribed to it so far. A weekly e-mail magazine with 20,000 to 50,000 characters of information on human relationships, HSP, HSS-type HSP, and HSE. Various content is available, such as limited live shows, limited radio, limited videos, and consultation forms. Please use it if you want to consult Ryota about your worries. I will explain each one in detail. *Consultations that are not related to HSPs...work or family relationships are also welcome. I will answer as an advisor. ーーDetails and registration here↓↓ ▶https://cocoyowa.com/mail-magazine/hs... *Won 1st place in the MagMag Grand Prize Newcomer Award. *Won 1st place in the MagMag Grand Prize by them Award. ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ Related, educational videos ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ ●[What you absolutely must avoid] Reactions and words that are likely to make people dislike you/Prevent unconsciously spreading hostility • [What you absolutely must avoid] Reactions and words that are likely to make people dislike you/Prevent unconsciously spreading hostility ●[Important] 7 ways to avoid being disliked by others and not making enemies/What are the actions that we tend to do without realizing? • [Important] 7 ways to avoid being disliked by others and not making enemies/What are the actions that we tend to do without realizing? ● [Good news] This will reduce harassment! 7 points to avoid being targeted by others • [Good news] This will reduce harassment! 7 points to avoid being targeted by others ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ Related blog articles to read ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ ● A blog that makes life easier for HSPs and sensitive people https://cocoyowa.com/ ● A summary of each diagnostic test for HSPs "The three types: introverted HSP, HSS type, and HSE" https://cocoyowa.com/test/ ● Ryota's lifestyle and column blog https://brweb.jp/ ● [Archival version] Things to try when you can't keep a job and feel self-loathing: What methods can you use to work without pushing yourself into a corner? https://brweb.jp/life/mental/ ● The ultimate solo technique. When you're having trouble with relationships, try living as an "affable lone wolf." What is the secret to not making enemies, as taught by a counselor? https://brweb.jp/life/lone-wolf/ ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ Ryota's social media accounts━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ ● Blog [Cocoyowa] https://cocoyowa.com/ ● instagram / ryo_shigoto ● stand.fm (Radio - Answering letters) https://stand.fm/channels/5f5c6ddcf04... ● Voicy (Radio - Lifestyle, Relaxed Living) https://voicy.jp/channel/1959 ● Threads https://www.threads.net/@ryo_shigoto ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ Brief profile━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ Ryota Born in 1984. During college, he took courses in healing music, hearing, psychology, gender, etc. (Degree: Arts) He is also a strong HSP himself, and has experienced five job changes and relationship problems. He has multiple titles, including mental psychology counselor, behavioral psychologist, composer, and lecturer. He is a father of two children. ・Operates "HSP Textbook" with the aim of providing consultation and lifestyle information for HSPs. ・Published books by a total of four companies, including KADOKAWA and SB Creative. ・Operates "Cocoiro Salon", a community for HSPs, and is currently holding various events. ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ About this channel ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ *HSP is a temperament and a psychological term that describes people who are highly sensitive to the environment. (For better or worse, they are easily influenced by the environment.) Just because you are HSP does not mean that you are "difficult to live" or "something". In addition, this channel is only about talking about your problems from an advisor's perspective, with the aim of solving your problems. Please be aware of this. Please also take a look at the channel description. #Human Relationships #Interpersonal Relationships #Psychology