❤️INHABITING POETICALLY IN THE WORLD 🎬episode 15 bis 🗓️created in 2020 📝Let go of the people who aren't ready to love you 📖This Year, Let Go Of The People Who Aren't Ready To Love You, article published in the Thought Catalog in December 2018 ✍️Brianna WIEST (⚠️ attributed to Anthony Hopkins) Let go of the people who aren't ready to love you It's the hardest thing you'll ever do in your life, and it's also the most important: stop giving your love to those who aren't ready to love you Stop having difficult conversations with people who don't want to change Stop showing up for people who are indifferent to your presence Stop loving people who aren't ready to love you I know your instinct is to do everything to win the favor of everyone around you, but it is also the impulse that will steal your time, energy, and mental, physical, and spiritual health When you begin to show up in your life, completely, with joy, interest, and commitment, not everyone will be ready to find you in that place of pure sincerity That doesn't mean you have to change who you are It means you have to stop loving people who aren't ready to love you If you are excluded, subtly insulted, forgotten, or easily ignored by the people you give your time to, you are not doing yourself a favor by continuing to give them your energy and your life The truth is, you are not everyone And not everyone is for you That's what makes this world so special, when you find the few people with whom you have a genuine friendship, love, or relationship You will know how precious it is Because you have experienced which isn't But the more time you spend trying to be loved by someone who can't The more time you waste depriving yourself of that same connection There are billions of people on this planet, and many of them will find themselves with you, on their level, with their vibration, from where they are But the more you stay small, involved in the intimacy of people who use you as a cushion, a second option, a therapist and a strategist for their emotional healing The more time you stay outside the community you desire Maybe if you stop showing up, you'll be less sought after Maybe if you stop trying, the relationship will end Maybe if you stop texting, your phone will stay dark for days and weeks Maybe if you stop loving someone, the love between you will dissolve That doesn't mean you've ruined a relationship That means the only thing holding this relationship together was the energy that you and you alone put into keeping it afloat That's not love That's attachment That's giving a chance to someone who doesn't want one The most precious and important thing you have in your life is your energy It's not just your time because it's limited It's your energy What you give each day is what will increasingly be created in your life It's those to whom you give your time and energy that will define your existence When you realize this, you begin to understand why you're so impatient when you spend your time with people who aren't right for you, and in activities, places, and situations that aren't right for you You'll begin to realize that the most important thing you can do for your life, for yourself, and for everyone you know, is to protect your energy more fiercely than anything else Make your life a safe haven, where only people “compatible” with you are allowed in You are not responsible for saving people You are not responsible for convincing them that they need to be saved It is not your job to exist for people and give them your life, little by little, moment by moment Because if you feel bad, if you feel like you have to, if you feel like you have to, you are the root of it all by your insistence, by being afraid that they will not return the favors that you have granted them It is up to you alone to realize that you are the beloved of your destiny, and to accept the love that you think you deserve Decide that you deserve real friendship, real commitment and complete love with people who are healthy and successful Then wait, just for a moment And watch how everything starts to change ❣️ INHABITING THE WORLD POETICALLY ➡️ YouTube / fabiennemaillot ➡️ TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@fabiennemaill... ➡️ Instagram / habiter_poetiquement_le_monde / fabieaime ➡️ Facebook / fabiennemaillotcomedienne ➡️ Vimeo https://vimeo.com/user7928098 ➡️ Site fabiennemaillot.com