❤️INHABITING THE WORLD POETICALLY 🎬episode 15 📕Let go of the people who aren't ready to love you 📖This Year, Let Go Of The People Who Aren't Ready To Love You, article published in the Thought Catalog 12/2018 ✍️Brianna WIEST ⚠️attributed to Anthony Hopkins 🎥 Text at 1 minute 41 after the presentation ⭐️ Video without the intro here: ▶️ • Let go of the people who aren't ready to love you It's the hardest thing you'll ever do in your life, and it's also the most important: stop giving your love to those who aren't ready to love you Stop having difficult conversations with people who don't want to change Stop showing up for people who are indifferent to your presence Stop loving people who aren't ready to love you I know your instinct is to do whatever it takes to ingratiate yourself with everyone around you, but it's also the impulse that will steal your time, energy, and mental, physical, and spiritual health When you start showing up in your life, completely, with joy, interest, and commitment, not everyone will be ready to find you in that place of pure sincerity That doesn't mean you have to change who you are It means you have to stop loving people who aren't ready to love you If you're being excluded, subtly insulted, forgotten, or easily ignored by the people you give your time to, you're not doing yourself a favor by continuing to give them your energy and your life The truth is, you're not everyone And not everyone is for You That's what makes this world so special, when you find the few people with whom you have a genuine friendship, love or relationship You know how precious that is Because you've experienced what isn't But the more time you spend trying to be loved by someone who can't The more time you waste depriving yourself of that same connection There are billions of people on this planet and many of them will find themselves with you on their level, with their vibration, from where they are But the more you stay small, involved in the intimacy of people who use you as a cushion, a second option, a therapist and a strategist for their emotional healing The more time you stay outside the community that You desire Maybe if you stop showing up, you'll be less sought after Maybe if you stop trying, the relationship will end Maybe if you stop texting, your phone will stay dark for days and weeks Maybe if you stop to love someone, the love between you will dissolve It doesn't mean you ruined a relationship It means the only thing holding that relationship together was the energy you and you alone put into keeping it afloat That's not love That's attachment That's giving a chance to someone who doesn't want one The most precious and important thing you have in your life is your energy It's not just your time since it's limited It's your energy What you give every day is what will be created more and more in your life It's those to whom you give your time and energy that will define your existence When you realize this, you begin to understand why you're so impatient when you spend your time with people who aren't right for you, and in activities, places, situations that aren't right for you You begin to realize that the most important thing you can do for your life, for yourself and everyone you know, it's protecting your energy more fiercely than anything else Make your life a safe haven, where only people who are "compatible" with you are allowed in You're not responsible for saving people You're not responsible for convincing them that they need to be saved It's not your job to exist for people and give them your life, little by little, moment by moment Because if you feel bad, if you feel like you have to, if you feel obligated, you are the root of it all by your insistence, by being afraid that they won't return the favors you have given them It's up to you to realize that you are the beloved of your destiny and to accept the love that you think you deserve Decide that you deserve real friendship, real commitment and complete love with people who are healthy and successful Then wait, just for a moment And watch how everything starts to change ❣️ INHABITING THE WORLD POETICALLY ➡️ YouTube / fabiennemaillot ➡️ TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@fabiennemaill... ➡️ Instagram / habiter_poetiquement_le_monde ➡️ Facebook / fabiennemaillotcomedienne