Show Cardiac Logos - About God's Marriage SHOW 18 - It is good to make some mistakes in the engagement! Questions What is the difference between a woman's psyche and a man's? And what does this difference mean spiritually? When and how should man be trained to learn the psyche of one and the other. And in marriage 40-50 years pass and we don't want to understand the difference. Courtesy and soul. You said that Agios Paisios was saying, let him make mistakes. If we make mistakes in our marriage, we are scared, bent and broken. How will the couple manage their mistakes in the marriage? After all, the mistake is our way, the internet, the gambling, the stadium, the wastes, the misunderstanding, the jealousy or the man himself? We are always looking to find fault with a third party. How did the Holy people manage their mistakes? How can we guard against losing our peace in engagement? I think that from young children we acquire the mentality of looking for faults and culprits everywhere but ourselves. And then the other person blames us. Maybe at least as parents in a marriage we can help our children not become like us? Or lost the game? If we are not well, how will we help our children to be well? At this point does the Church come to help with its healing role? I think this is what the world does not understand, especially in the role of the Church, that when it has healed people, then these people, the right, healthy people, the people who are complete, the healed, also become right family heads, right in society, etc. Talk to us that's why. You have said that the work of the Church is important when it is purely Orthodox Church work. Can you explain this to us? A broken marriage creates social and spiritual problems and what are they? For example, I heard that some ten years ago 20,000 children in Cyprus are from single-parent families due to divorce. Can rising divorce rates change national DNA? Does the government understand this problem? To return to the wish, why didn't Abraham go himself and send his servant? How did Isaac enter, why did he enter God's plan, God's providence to find a wife? What part did Abraham play in this? Bless the hearing of your servants (here) and (here) and "support the word spoken to them, support the promise, the word that they gave to each other". Why must man in the course of the trial go through shocks and difficulties and invoke Divine Grace to keep his promise? Many times due to the wrong understanding of these promises we consider our man a booty, an acquisition. We have a sick intake of promise. Where is the confusion and how is it fixed? Who or who ultimately pays the price for not keeping this promise, as the Church teaches us? Is it normal for this product promise of time to go through a thousand waves? What should we do so that we don't forget that the Church strengthens, supports this promise we gave. That the wish is completely ontological, meaning that it will be blessed anyway. Can you save your marriage but have everything else fall apart? For example, the wife should leave, the children should be somewhere else. Why shouldn't the primary goal be to save the whole family and not an individual? He, bless the hearing of your servants Nikolaos and Helen and support the word spoken to them. Why is it so important for the Church to hear the couple's names at this point and not just say your servants? Why is it important when we introduce my fiancee not to say from here my fiancee but from here my fiancee Lena? Why is it important when we introduce my fiancee not to say from here my fiancee but from here my fiancee Lena? In this modern society we live in, we abuse our names, or our parents abuse them, or even the spouse himself. What does all this show? You have associated the name with our personality. How is our personality lost in passions? Give us some examples? You said that Agios Sophronios did not let the parents take their children to communion by themselves, but to reach the Holy Grail walking alone. What did he want to show with this and how does this example help us to maintain our personality in the engagement process?