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We made a film to help victims of violence and their loved ones find answers and support in difficult times. In this part, we look at why rape happens, what to do immediately after the incident, how to live on and where to look for help. You will hear real stories of people who have experienced violence, advice from psychologists, and also learn about available support resources. Start learning Graphic Design https://clck.ru/3Evnrc at Bang Bang Education Use the promo code PROSHCHE for a 50% discount + a stress management course as a gift only until the end of December You can read us on TG channels: Karina https://t.me/istominakarina Natasha https://t.me/hadeout Center "Coping is Easier" https://t.me/handlingbettercenter Center for behavioral therapy "Coping is Easier" - https://handlingbetter.ru Evgenia Smolenskaya, clinical psychologist https://esmolenskaya.online/ The "Sisters" center provides assistance and support to survivors of sexualized violence and their loved ones. You can contact the Center by calling the helpline +7 (499) 901-02-01 or writing to the crisis email [email protected]. Support the work of the Sisters Center, make a one-time donation or subscribe to a monthly payment: https://donate.sisters-help.ru/ Nastya Krasilnikova, investigative journalist Podcast "Daughter of a Robber": https://podcast.ru/1540573120/e Telegram channel "Vashu mat!": https://t.me/s/vashumat Instagram: / unsudden Meta, the owner of the social networks Facebook and Instagram, is recognized as extremist in the Russian Federation. Cooperation proposals [email protected] Support the channel https://www.donationalerts.com/r/spra... Timestamps 00:00 What our film is about 01:43 Universal female experience 04:33 Stories of Alice and Valentina. How it all began 14:25 Why do people rape? 15:21 "Give me a blowjob, you'll go home" 17:44 What does a rapist feel 18:25 Alice and Valentina on how it happened 28:25 Are rapists psychopaths or healthy people? 30:16 "My whole dress was covered in blood" 31:35 Motivation of rapists 32:33 Is it possible to prove to a rapist that he is wrong? 34:43 Can a rapist realize his mistake and stop? 35:39 Charisma and charm of a rapist 37:30 Are rapists the victims themselves? 41:01 Alisa and Valentina on what happened after 49:55 "She provoked me." About victim blaming 54:07 Who can become a victim 56:37 "It's her own fault" 1:06:00 Victim's behavior and reactions 1:13:16 Consequences 1:19:54 Harassment 1:31:44 "Soft" forms of harassment 1:36:20 Violence by women 1:47:29 I was told about the violence they experienced. What should I do? 1:52:03 Hate for victims 1:59:43 Where to go for help 2:02:04 How to live and have sex after rape 2:07:49 Is it possible to completely cope with the violence you have experienced? 2:08:23 Why is it important to talk about violence 2:10:29 There is a lot of evil in the world. How to deal with this? 2:12:16 Results