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Happiness School https://hihappyschool.com/ Jungto Buddhist University https://www.jungto.org/edu/junior/ Jungto Society http://www.jungto.org #Willpower #Independence #Dependency I am very dependent and want everything to be easy, so I have been relying on my parents and others. I am currently 42 years old and have nothing left. Because of my poor interpersonal relationships and adaptability, I have lost all my jobs, have not been able to get married, have no friends, and have been nagging my parents, which has made me older. I accept this as my punishment and am trying to build everything from zero, although it is late. To be honest, it is difficult from the beginning to find a small job, or to find friends or hobbies, because I have to do everything on my own. I am always afraid of being alone. I feel inferior to my peers, so I feel discouraged. Recently, I have realized that my parents are getting older and that I have to accept everything, but I am worried because of my condition. I am struggling with my dependency and I feel like I will continue to suffer like this for the rest of my life. I would like some advice on how to get through this.